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Between being fried from having people in the house, managing Lily’s needs, planning travel, running a business, and trying to keep my nervous system regulated, I can see how quickly things pile up. I’m not struggling because I don’t care. I’m not overwhelmed because I’m incapable. I’m overwhelmed because there are a lot of moving parts, and my brain processes them all at once. Lots of conversations and connections are happening across my spaces, and I genuinely love that. I love getting to know people, especially mums, and I love the depth of those conversations. But it doesn’t change the fact that I still have to manage my own capacity alongside it all. What I’m really seeing is that being a neurodivergent mum running a business isn’t about doing less or trying harder. It’s about understanding how your brain actually works and being honest about what you’re holding at any given moment. What helps you recognise when you’re at capacity, before everything tips over?

Ever notice how the moment you finally sit down to “focus,” your brain goes: • remember this • don’t forget that • what if you did this instead • quick idea, WRITE IT DOWN • also, should you rethink everything? That’s not procrastination. That’s an unclosed-loop problem. Most people try to solve this by: ❌ forcing discipline ❌ adding better tools ❌ shaming themselves into action But here’s the counterintuitive fix I’ve seen work: 👉 Stop trying to optimize output 👉 Start by stabilizing input A simple rule I follow: If my mind is noisy, the task is probably too big for the state I’m in. So instead of asking: “What’s the smartest move?” I ask: “What’s the smallest honest move that reduces mental load?” Reply to one message. Name the decision instead of solving it. Park the idea somewhere safe so my brain can let go. Momentum comes after relief not before it. This way of working is actually why I started building Klariti a community designed less around “doing more” and more around thinking without pressure (and yes, fewer open tabs). Curious: What’s one mental tab you’d love to close this week, even partially?

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Most people who “can’t take action” aren’t lazy. They’re stuck in a loop that looks like this: • Thinking about the next step • Questioning if it’s the right step • Comparing options • Replaying past mistakes • Waiting to feel more ready By the end of the day… nothing moves. Overthinking isn’t caused by lack of discipline. It’s caused by too much mental input without a place to land. What I’ve noticed (in myself and others): When your mind is noisy, every action feels heavy. When your mind is quiet, even small actions feel obvious. The shift isn’t: “Try harder” or “Find a better strategy” It’s: Reduce internal pressure until action stops feeling forced. That’s the lens I use now clarity before execution. I started Skool community called Klariti for creators and builders who: feel mentally scattered know what to do in theory but hesitate in practice want calm, confident movement instead of mental friction It starts with a short clarity reset to quiet the overthinking loop before adding anything new. If overthinking has been slowing you down lately, you’re not broken your system just needs less noise. Curious to hear: What does overthinking sound like in your head right now?