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🌪️ Harmony Loopathon: Who’s Closing a Loop With Me? 🌪️
Alright Harmony Family… it’s time. My loops have been giving me side‑eye for weeks, and I’ve decided to stare one down before it grows legs and starts paying rent. So… I’m hosting a Loopathon! 🎉 Inspired by the tiny loop we all tackled on Day One of the 5‑Day Challenge, this is a two‑week mini‑mission to close ONE loop.Not a project.Not a life overhaul.Not “repaint the house, reorganise the garage, and write a memoir.” Just one small loop — the kind with 5 or 6 steps max — the one you keep meaning to finish but somehow it keeps… looping. Think: - That form you printed but never signed - The email you drafted but never sent - The thing you bought the supplies for but never actually did - The drawer you opened, sighed at, and closed again - The “I’ll just do that tomorrow” task that’s now old enough to vote Pick one. Name it. Claim it.And over the next two weeks, let’s cheer each other on as we close these little circles of chaos. Post your loop below — bonus points for humour, honesty, or admitting how long it’s been haunting you.I’ll go first… 😅 🌀 My Loopathon Loop: The Scrum Mastery Certification (…Again 😅) Alright, confession time:Twelve months ago I heroically began my Scrum Mastery Certification. My boss even paid for it. I did the modules… I did the learning… I did everything except the small, tiny, microscopic detail of… actually sitting the exam. Fast‑forward to now:I’m paying for the exam myself (hello, ADHD tax, my old friend), and it’s officially become my Loopathon loop. So here it is — my 5–6 step loop that absolutely does not need to be a project, but has been living rent‑free in my brain for a year: - Finish the last modules (for real this time, not “mentally finished”) - Do the mock exams without crying, bargaining, or reorganising the pantry instead - Block out proper revision time in the calendar that I will definitely attend and not just admire - (Hmmmn I will find time by not doom scrolling!!! and the ivnites will be colour‑coded, because that makes it feel official) - Book the exam for the third week of April - Celebrate passing - do happy dance
🌪️ Harmony Loopathon: Who’s Closing a Loop With Me? 🌪️
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My endless loop revolves around making all the little minutia decisions around a themed cape I'm making. Embroidery thread shades, fabric choices, pattern piece sizing, how big should a design be? OY! Just pick and go! Oh but no, somebody somewhere is going to notice that I should have made that triangular piece a 1/2 in smaller than it is... (Seriously?!) And on and on and on it goes in my nitpicking brain. I really should be celebrating each time I finally make a decision.😆 Step 1. Lay out the pieces and make sure they actually fit on the cape.
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@Deb Brouwer @Darci Wert Since I've broken what I still need to do down to 20+ steps, and I've finished step 2, I haven't much to show yet. When it's basted together, I'll screw up my courage to post it.😬
Just want to share Insight from AI Harmony. I've just started using it.
The Neuroscience of Habit Formation 1. Understand the Mechanism, Not Just the Checklist As Dr. Andrew Huberman puts it, when you understand why something works, you gain flexibility to customize it for yourself [Source 1]. There are endless "top 10 habit" lists online, but understanding the brain science behind them is what makes them stick. It gives you the ability to adapt when life throws curveballs, rather than rigidly following a script. 2. Dopamine Is the Currency Your brain runs on dopamine, and it doesn't distinguish between "good" and "bad" sources. When you grab a burger, scroll TikTok, or hit snooze, you get a quick dopamine hit that lasts about five minutes, followed by a crash and shame. That's a dopamine deficit [Source 7]. The reframe: train yourself to recognize that the "bad" option gives ~5 minutes of pleasure, while the "good" option builds something lasting. Over time, healthy habits generate their own dopamine through a sense of accomplishment and momentum. 3. Your Breaks Matter as Much as Your Work This is a huge one. Huberman highlights that if you struggle to focus or start a task, there's a very good chance your breaks were too stimulating [Source 5]. He advocates for "boring breaks" and silence before and after bouts of focused work. If you're doom-scrolling between tasks, you're essentially flooding your dopamine system and making the next task feel impossible by comparison. 4. The 1% Rule and Habit Stacking Improving just 1% daily makes you 37 times better in one year. The ADHD Harmony framework recommends habit stacking: chain habits together so they flow automatically [Source 3]. Example: Wake → one liter of water → five minutes of movement → deep work. Attach new habits to existing anchors. Write the stack on your mirror. Externalize everything. 5. Systems Over Willpower This is the core truth for ADHD brains: willpower is not the answer [Source 4]. It might work for a week or two because you can force it, but long-term success comes from:
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I have tried anchoring. It worked for about 5 days. "Heat coffee water: Drink glass of water" Then I would completely forget. I even tried phone alerts. I end up ignoring them. What's the magic to anchoring? I must be doing it wrong.
confession
Just read the first part of the blueprint. The one who resists posting? me. Resist engaging? That is absolutely me. Resist showing up? me. I never publicly commit to anything. I don't want to be held accountable if I fail. If I fail, I'm human. If I'm human, I'm fallible. If I'm fallible, I shouldn't be here taking up space. No commitment = the safety of invisibility. There it is. In black and white. For all the world to see.
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@Pam Raney Thank you. I am not in the cohort but plan on going through the 6 week blueprint. I like your idea of writing down and acknowledging the small wins.
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@Tuuli Gress Thank you. You're right about the whole story thing. Guess this is as good a time to change the plot as any. ⭐🌘
🎁 Free Blueprint Update + Next 5-day Challenge Announced
Hey ADHD Harmony fam! What a ride these last weeks have been. If you were on yesterday's live Q&A, you know. We watched back the recap video together and honestly, I got emotional again. Hearing your stories, your breakthroughs, the moments where something finally clicked. That is why I do this. 🎁 So here's the big update: The blueprint is unlocked!! Now let me be fully transparent about what changed and why. Originally I set the blueprint to unlock after 50 days of being active. The idea behind that was simple: the cycle between a challenge, a six-week program, and the next challenge is roughly 50 days. So my thinking was that if someone joins during the marketing phase before a challenge, they wouldn't get the blueprint too early, because you really need to do the challenge first for the blueprint to make sense. It's the next step, not the first step. But then I realized there was a lot of confusion. What does "active" even mean? Am I going to check everyone individually? It wasn't concrete, it wasn't transparent, and that bothered me. So I decided to flip it around. Instead of making you wait 50 days, I'm giving access to everyone who completed the five-day challenge. Right now, it's in the classroom "6 Week Transformation Blueprint". But here's my ask in return: I'm giving this away for free. And honestly, it's quite a lot. What I ask from you is simple: use it and engage in the community. Do your check-ins. Share your reflections. Post your wins and your struggles. Be real. Be vulnerable. Help others by showing up. Because here's the truth. If people stop posting and leave after the challenge, this community dies. And I don't want that. Not for me, not for you, not for the people who haven't found us yet. Now the practical stuff: If you completed the challenge, you should have received an invite in your email by now. So if you submitted your AI questions and received your report during the challenge, you're in. The invite was sent to the email address you used when doing the AI questions (see the screenshot attached, click "JOIN NOW" to receive access). If your Skool account uses a different email, please send me a DM and I'll get your Skool account access sorted. This was my only accurate way to track who actually completed the challenge.
🎁 Free Blueprint Update + Next 5-day Challenge Announced
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Thank you. I had already figured that I was a lost cause since I forgot to even open my computer the other day, and probably would have simply unsubscribed.
Whelp, I missed a day!
Forgot to turn on the computer yesterday and missed checking in. So no 50 days of participation badge for me. Game over!
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