Wsalam sis, what is a marriage CV??

@Aseel Himeidan yes thx sis

Wsalam dear sister Nawal ❤️ I hear you. I feel you. I understand you. You are not alone. We all feel down and overwhelmed by the pressure of life and all the expectations. It is very difficult indeed. I want you to know this. You are enough. You are special and unique. You are YOU and you are awesome. No matter where you are in your journey, you are on the right track. Life is meant to be confusing. Life is not meant to be perfect nor to be easy. We are meant to have ups and downs. We grow wiser when we go through challenges. Once you know these facts, it gives you some peace because you know that it's normal. Then accept it, because you cannot change how life is and finally, allow yourself to think and have your own thoughts. By that I mean, don't let shaytan's waswassa (wispers) consume your mind. Give yourself the right to choose not to listen to him and rather listen to your real inner voice. This deep voice inside of you that believes in you. That loves you. That cares about you. That know that you can achieve it all. Choose you. Like Allah chose you. Love you, like Allah loves you. Trust yourself and trust Allah. Everything always gets to where it needs to be. Sometimes in life, we want things to happen so much that we block them without realizing it, because we are too impatient and even sometimes obsessed with them in a way that we keep thinking about them so much. We need to learn to let go. To let Allah's plan unfold naturally without us trying trying trying to make it happen. Allah knows what we want and He knows what is good for us and when it should happens, if it is to happen. All we can do is to have our niyyah ready, make our part (taking the actions we need to take) in the journey and let the rest on Allah. Tawakkul 🤲🏻❤️. Life is all in the mindset we have. Give yourself grace. All these ups and downs are forging you more and more to be the best version of yourself you can be. Trust the process. May Allah make your heart at ease. May He give patience and help you with tawakkul. May Allah send your way what is the best for you. 💞🤲🏻

Heyy sis, welcome to the community 🥰 I agree with Aseel, you'll love this community inshallah. It's a very nice, accepting, respectful, welcoming and beautiful community.

Salam sister, I heard of it too. I think we can all relate to you. It's scary for sure. What I say to myself to help me is that Allah loves us and knows our fears. He will not make us go through anything we cannot overcome. He is also with us at all times and He supports us. Allah wants what is best for us. Remember that we all have our ups and downs. We try to get better, it goes well and than at other times we go back to our old self, it's all normal. We have to be patient with ourselves and keep putting the work. We can do this. What we don't notice necessarly is that we are improving all the time, because we are active. It's important to realize that and to not be too hard on ourselves. Anxiety will talk to you and when it does talk to it back and remind it that we have Allah and that everything will be ok. Talk to Allah when you feel scared or overwhelmed. It always helps. You know sister, it's all a journey. By being active in working on yourself you'll get benefits too. When you work on yourself, you gain knowledge and this knowledge added to your intellect and your self-awareness helps you distinguish between bad/wrong and good/right things and people. So, I would also say to trust yourself and your progress. To also trust Allah, He is there to guide you to wtv is right for you. Here is another thing people say : "When you make a step towards Allah, He makes 10 steps towards you" ❤️😍. Hope this helps 🙏🏻❤️

@Ayesha Zafar Alhamdulilah I'm glad it made you feel better sis ❤️ Keep trying, keep having the intentions and Allah will help you my dear 🙏🏻. Ameen on your duas 🤲🏻❤️🤲🏻

What helps me stay at peace is the idea that having tawakul is one of the greatest blessing we have from Allah. It was difficult for me to learn tawakul since I grew up in the west, but I wanted to learn it so much that Alhamdulilah Allah made me go through experiences that showed me what it was and how to have it. It's still a work in progress but I am better then ever thanks to Allah Alhamdulilah Alhamdulilah Alhamdulilah. Don't listen to your confused inner voice, listen to Allah when He tells you to do your part and let the rest be on Him 🤲🏻❤️