This meditation pierced a veil for me. I tend to think I'm fairly chill in my interaction with life. I pride myself on my patience and being unperturbed by upsets. In looking for an area of upset, I started with general politics, and that was too diffuse to latch on to. Then, I found a relationship in my life that is suffering badly, that I gloss over. I nearly fell out of my chair. I don't even think of it any longer, but I realize that I am severely incomplete with this person. In following the RAIN meditation, I was able to separate myself from the upset and create this person in a different light. Amazing.