Phoenix, Arizona

Not a negative at all. What a great learning experience for you and a teaching moment for the community! There is a reason that Sartain hammers on "fix your fucking instagram FIRST" and you got to learn why first hand. To your credit, you took action. You took imperfect action and you got less than perfect results. That only makes sense. But, you took action none the less. Plus you weren't afraid to share your experience with the rest of us. This just re-enforced my decision not to move on to step 2 until I get step 1 completed. Thanks, Bro! As far as people asking why you are inviting them, I would just say something like.. " I like meeting new and interesting people and you seemed like someone who might enjoy something like this." or " You seem interesting and like the kind of person who might enjoy coming to the party." then just let it go until you get your f'ing IG fixed. 😁

Oh, I just had to laugh! This reminds me of the old LeRoy Jenkings meme.! At least you weren't chicken!

@Scott S I am with you, my brother. Been there, done that. My wife took our 3 kids and separated from me after only 5 years of marriage. She did it only one week after I returned from being overseas for 5 months (Desert Storm). I was so devastated, that the day it happened I literally almost fed myself a 9mm bullet. I was really fucked up. Thinking of my kids is what saved me from doing something really stupid. The kids are grown now and they all love me. My ex and I have been on friendly terms for years now. My biggest take away from my experience that I should have just focused on fixing myself instead of wasting 2 years trying to get my wife back and that kids really do grow up fast and our job as fathers is to create the best memories we can for them as they grow. My kids often say to me "Remember that time when we were little and..." so make sure it is nothing but good memories. Always put your kids first while you work on yourself and you will reap huge dividends in the future while you are enjoying your kids while they are still young. To me, this program isn't about chasing after pussy or getting a step mom for the kids ( that WILL happen in it's own time). This program is about becoming the best man you can be which will help you be the best dad you can be. You really are doing this for them, so keep them #1 while you are getting your shit together and you will be fine. You are in the right place and I know you can do it.

@Robert Cossey I will, Thanks!

@Sylvester Bradford You can find other stuff to re-post by looking at other people's IG and find something that makes you laugh then re-post that on your IG.

Wish I knew this a couple of wives ago.😁

@Fernando Vasquez So True!