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Dating With Clarity

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Hey guys, Apologies for disappearing and not posting for a bit. So, let's rain check. I've had a couple of dates with a girl I like, and they went super well. In person she's great, slightly introverted but still opens up well. We've had quite a lot of back and forth chatting, chemistry is there. Her chemistry isn't as making fun as mine. But, people are different for a reason. We are currently planning a 3rd date for next Saturday. However, my only concern with this girl is her messaging back is so slow. For example, after Date 1. I messaged saying I had a great time, and she didn't reply. I'd assume she ghosted me. So, I messaged again a few days later. She actually replied, and said she was away that weekend. I left my number on a message back. She actually messaged me. So we organised Date 2. Date 2 she cancelled due to illness last minute. (I had already got there) Fair enough, difference is she actually rescheduled. Date 2 we went for a long walk and talk, had lunch together, and it was a great time. We discussed in Date 2 about future date ideas, and going for a meal for Date 3. I've been trying to organise this over text message as I'm quite keen. I haven't felt attraction like this before in any interaction in my 34 years on this planet. She said she was up for going for a meal as planned, we have the location. She said she would send me her schedule to organise. Well... I waited 3 days and have no message of the schedule. (So I got in my head overthinking that perhaps she's not interested?) I took another shot to check in with her, to ask how her week was going and stuff. She said she was with family this Easter Weekend, and asked me if I still wanted the meal next Saturday? She text me back, it took her about half a day (14 hours). I replied right away to get something locked in. I'm still waiting to hear back. My concern are these things actually: Myself getting too attached too quickly. I'm a big texter and a big communicator. I'm not used to this waiting for replies and stuff for so long. Do I start calling her from next week to check in?
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@Shelley Badayos exactly this. I've taken a step back and seen that yes this is coming from "not having many options'. This isn't dating with clarity, this is dating in scarcity VS. abundance. I've experienced emotional pendulums in the past this is something I'm working on going forward. Even with a massive high, to not attach meaning to it. She hasn't replied still. 3 days now. I'm not chasing anymore. If it happens cool, if not whatever I haven't lost anything.
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@Shelley Badayos 3rd date is now confirmed. I'll keep you posted. My feelings are in a way better place now... with the uncertainty much better. Boom!
April Dating Plans
So April just started and I’m curious to know what you guys have planned for this month for your dating lives? Like are one of you actually going on a date? Or participating in a social event? Or trying out something new in dating? What exactly do you guys have planned to elevate your dating scene nowadays!
April Dating Plans
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Hey @Jordan Torres , I'll be going out on Saturdays to high traffic areas to talk to women in public. I'm going to start small, as my confidence has been knocked slightly recently. Perhaps try the same?
SHOUTOUT MONDAY!
Good afternoon everyone ☀️ IT'S THE LAST WEEK OF MARCH!! Time is flying this 2026 and it's crazzzzzyyy. I hope you all had a good weekend and are easing back into things well. That said, it’s time for our weekly shoutout. I want to give a huge shoutout to our two most active members in the community this week based on the leaderboard: @Carl Webber @Patrick White Thank you both for showing up, contributing, and helping keep this community going. It really does make a difference, and I appreciate you being here. Also, quick reminder as we head into this week and toward the end of March: whoever finishes the month in the number one spot on the leaderboard will win a free 30-minute 1:1 coaching session with me. So keep showing up Keep participating Keep supporting each other! xoxo
SHOUTOUT MONDAY!
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Nice one guys!
Q&A Tuesday!!!
Heeey there it’s that time of the week again. Drop your dating q’s down below!!
Q&A Tuesday!!!
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@Shelley Badayos Second date got cancelled last minute, she was feeling un well, however she wanted to reschedule But, after a couple of days. I calmly messaged her asking if she was feeling better. She said she was, and this made her engage to organise reschedule. Long story short, our 2nd date is this Sunday, and she even requested to have lunch during our planned walk. (I intentionally let her organise it to gauge interest). Keep you posted.
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Second date went really well! Planning a 3rd very soon 🫶 @Shelley Badayos
WIN THURSDAY!!!
Hey guys! It's that time of the week to share some wins! What are you grateful for? Excited about? Comment down below
WIN THURSDAY!!!
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Not letting others dictate my working schedule!
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