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Dating With Clarity

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SHOUTOUT MONDAY!
Hi everyone! We made it to the last few days of April, and just like that, May is basically knocking on the door. 🌷 Quick shoutout to our two most active members this week: ✨ @Jordan Torres ✨ @Michael Taylor You two have showed up this week and adding real value to this space! It doesn't go unnoticed, thank you!! Now, for everyone else: May is a fresh start, but only if you actually do something different going into it. A new month doesn't reset anything on its own. What changes things is you deciding to show up differently, asking the question you've been sitting on, taking the action you've been putting off, or just being more present here than you were last month. April had some good momentum. Let's carry that into May and actually build on it. New month, same commitment. Let's go. 🔥💛
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SHOUTOUT MONDAY!
MONTHLY CLARITY CALL CANCELLED
Due to low number of attendance, we will cancel today’s call. Have a good day guys!
MONTHLY CLARITY CALL CANCELLED
GOLDEN NUGGET FRIDAY!
Happy Friday everyone! Here's our Golden Nugget Friday for today: A lot of men think dating confidence means: “I need to always know what to say.” “I need to never feel nervous.” “I need to impress her immediately.” But real dating confidence is actually this: You can feel nervous and still show up. You can not know the perfect thing to say and still stay present. You can be interested in her without abandoning yourself. The goal isn’t to become some smooth, perfect version of yourself. The goal is to become the version of you who can handle the moment. The awkward pause. The playful tension. The rejection. The uncertainty. The attraction. Because dating gets easier when you stop trying to perform and start practicing presence. So your nugget for today: Confidence is not the absence of nerves. Confidence is trusting yourself while the nerves are still there. Question for you guys: Where do you tend to lose confidence the most in dating? Before approaching? During the conversation? When flirting? When asking her out? After the date? COMMENT YOUR ANSWERS DOWN BELOW!
GOLDEN NUGGET FRIDAY!
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@Jordan Torres What about during the convo you struggle with?
Question Tuesday!!
Time to drop your dating q's down in the comments down below?
Question Tuesday!!
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@Jordan Torres I know we've talked about this on the call. ;) Just remember, you are only responsible for the actions you take, not the outcomes.
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Shelley Badayos
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