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Q&A Tuesday!
It's that time of the week again. Opening the floor to your dating q's! Drop em below
Q&A Tuesday!
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@Jordan Torres Tell me more so I can remember. Like what specifically on starting it caught your attention?
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@Jordan Torres Your state and mindset affects how you say things. Think if you are feeling unsure of yourself or desperate in getting her number, how do you think you would say "Hi" vs. the person who is not attached to the outcome, confident and grounded?
WIN THURSDAY!
Happy Thursday! Missed Win Wednesday so we are moving it this week to today!! What wins are you celebrating? Comment down below 👇
WIN THURSDAY!
Q&A Tuesday!
HAPPY TUESDAY! I am opening the floor for some dating questions. Comment them down below!
Q&A Tuesday!
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@Andrew West under classroom. Make sure to watch the “start here” section so you know how to navigate the group as well
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@Andrew West https://www.skool.com/dating-with-clarity-6355/classroom/d686db75?md=3530828dc4574dd7a3cc199c93fc6adb
Dating App Match
On Monday I matched with a girl on Hinge. I honestly have no expectations. But i replied to her profile. It said: 'I want someone who supports my hobbies, and interests, can handle some light ribbing/taking the piss out of eachother and can make me laugh.' Now I replied to this: Absolutely 100 yes! I hope (fingers crossed emoji) you don't cry though. She replied: Hope I don't cry ever??? Or just whilst bantering? My reply: Just whilst bantering ;) I hope you could take it hehe x Her: Well I wouldn't put it in my profile if couldn't 🧐🤪 My reply: Well I just wanted to double check that's all 😉😂 . What are you going to crochet for me? 😊Great hobby BTW x. (She mentioned Crochet in her profile so i played on it) Her reply: Crochet for you?!!!! It takes forever! 😂 x My reply: Oh... 😂 Plenty of time for me 😇 haha. How long have you been crocheting? You must have some good patience! X Her reply: I started last year and taught myself from youtube x My reply: Nice that's really good. I'd love to hear all about it person 😉. Got much planned for your day? X ----------------------- Now I only replied this morning my time at around 6AM. I saw her last message round 7PM my time, but felt I will wait as I'm not in a rush. But, I'm seeing how this goes. I'm pushing for a date next because she seems to be on my wave length. Banter is basically a British term of making fun of each other without meaning. Well, this was unexpected. Here's to Valentine's Week!
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Shoot for that date!! Wishing you all the best.
She said no!
Hand on heart; this is the most positive female interaction I have encountered so far! I asked for her phone number, she said "why", and I said "I want to get to know you". She said no and believe me it's a great step to be only rejected. I'm thankful she didn't cause a scene. And yes, I know we should go for more than a virtual mean, but baby steps.
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YES AT LEAST YOU TRIED AND THAT IS DEFINITELY A FIRST STEP!!! So proud of youuu
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Shelley Badayos
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