Hey guys! I've made an advent calendar to help you have a more reflective and jolly dating life before Christmas comes! The PDF file is attached to this post. Would love to hear your guys' thoughts and reflections by of course sharing your journey through our community tab!

🎉 Heeeyyy there! I’m so excited to have you here! 💖 You’ve just taken the first step toward transforming your dating life, and I couldn’t be more thrilled to have you join this community. Here’s where to start: 👉 Head over to the Classroom and check out the START HERE module. It will walk you through everything you need to know about how this group works, what to expect, and how to get the most out of it. Follow the steps inside. It’s designed to make things super easy for you so you can hit the ground running. If you have any questions or need support, feel free to message me here. I’ll get back to you as soon as I can. Let’s grow, connect, and make dating feel clear and confident again. You’re in the right place. 💪 Let’s do this! 🚀 xoxo Shelley

HOUSE RULES Welcome aboard! Let’s keep this space safe, supportive, and productive for everyone by following these simple guidelines: 1. Create a Supportive Space Let’s keep this group thriving by: • Sharing uplifting thoughts and celebrating progress • Focusing on solutions, not problems, to keep the energy constructive (no negative Nancy vibes 😠) 2. Respect Everyone’s Journey • Treat all members with kindness, no matter their background, opinions, or experiences • Listen actively and avoid interrupting or dismissing others during discussions • Value everyone’s input — this is a space for growth and learning 3. Celebrate Wins (Big and Small!) 🥳 • Progress is progress, and it deserves recognition • Cheer on fellow members when they share achievements • Let’s support each other with genuine excitement and positivity 4. Add Humor (But Keep It Respectful) • We love some humor! • Feel free to share lighthearted jokes or memes that are relevant and positive • Avoid anything offensive, overly personal, or inappropriate 5. No Politics or Drama This group is about self-improvement and dating growth — not political debates or drama. Keep conversations focused on learning, connection, and progress. 6. Address Concerns Privately If you have questions, concerns, or need clarification, reach out to me directly. This ensures sensitive matters are handled respectfully without disrupting the group. (Please allow some time for me to reply — my schedule can get packed, but I’ll always get back to you.) 7. Zero Tolerance for Negativity This is a no-negativity zone. Any form of bullying, disrespect, or hate speech will result in immediate removal from the group. Let’s protect this space by leading with empathy and respect. 8. Post in the Right Categories Keep the group organized by posting your wins, questions, and discussions in the correct categories. It helps everyone find what they need faster and keeps our space clean and easy to navigate. Please comment “YES” below to confirm that you’ve read and agree to follow the House Rules 🫡