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Q&A Tuesday!
It's that time of the week again. Opening the floor to your dating q's! Drop em below
Q&A Tuesday!
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I can’t exactly remember if it was that live you did over the weekend where you said something that caught my attention but you said something like “How you come into the conversation with her” “How you start it” and was just wondering if you can shed more light on that like examples on how we can come in into the conversation indeed? 🤔
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@Shelley Badayos Ok so I was right it was the live video you did this past Saturday where my question is coming from ( immediately after the 8:00 mark to be precise on the live) you said “it’s not about the “What to say”, it’s all about “how you come in the conversation and how you say it right” 👈🏻 that’s where I was going with with my question if you could fill me in more on how to indeed come in into the conversation and how you say it? To answer your other question, what caught my attention on starting it was what you said later in the video that me personally before I used to come in thinking I have to say the correct things otherwise the conversation dies like always worry about messing up but now I feel like I’m in the mindset of the other thing you mentioned and that is I’m coming in into the conversation with the intention of getting to know the other person and seeing what they’re all about. I do feel like it’s important to know how to come into the conversation wanting to get to know the other person more because if not I feel like I would mess up everytime and not build a solid connection with someone. That’s why the whole subject caught my attention to wanting to know how to come in into the conversation and how to say it right because I feel if one doesn’t know, they won’t get far with the person they are trying to communicate. I want to have genuine conversations moving forward with women with the intention of getting to know them and everything about them. That’s why my question as well. 🙂‍↔️
She said no!
Hand on heart; this is the most positive female interaction I have encountered so far! I asked for her phone number, she said "why", and I said "I want to get to know you". She said no and believe me it's a great step to be only rejected. I'm thankful she didn't cause a scene. And yes, I know we should go for more than a virtual mean, but baby steps.
0 likes • 14h
Yes definitely kudos to you for being bold and straight up asking for her number. I know now rejection is part of the process. There will be plenty of opportunities. 😌
Dating App Match
On Monday I matched with a girl on Hinge. I honestly have no expectations. But i replied to her profile. It said: 'I want someone who supports my hobbies, and interests, can handle some light ribbing/taking the piss out of eachother and can make me laugh.' Now I replied to this: Absolutely 100 yes! I hope (fingers crossed emoji) you don't cry though. She replied: Hope I don't cry ever??? Or just whilst bantering? My reply: Just whilst bantering ;) I hope you could take it hehe x Her: Well I wouldn't put it in my profile if couldn't 🧐🤪 My reply: Well I just wanted to double check that's all 😉😂 . What are you going to crochet for me? 😊Great hobby BTW x. (She mentioned Crochet in her profile so i played on it) Her reply: Crochet for you?!!!! It takes forever! 😂 x My reply: Oh... 😂 Plenty of time for me 😇 haha. How long have you been crocheting? You must have some good patience! X Her reply: I started last year and taught myself from youtube x My reply: Nice that's really good. I'd love to hear all about it person 😉. Got much planned for your day? X ----------------------- Now I only replied this morning my time at around 6AM. I saw her last message round 7PM my time, but felt I will wait as I'm not in a rush. But, I'm seeing how this goes. I'm pushing for a date next because she seems to be on my wave length. Banter is basically a British term of making fun of each other without meaning. Well, this was unexpected. Here's to Valentine's Week!
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Seems like a decent connection hope it works for you Chris! Hinge huh? I never tried that one. I tried MeetMe app but it was ok. Might try hinge but trying out in person events right now 😌
SHOUTOUT MONDAY!
Hi everyone, good morning!! ☀️ Can you believe it’s already the second week of February? Time is flying. So you already know what time it is: Weekly Shoutout Time! I want to give a huge shoutout to the two most active members in our community this week based on the leaderboard: @Jordan Torres @Chris Hall Thank you both for showing up, contributing, and keeping this community alive. You genuinely make this space better for everyone. Quick reminder as we move deeper into the month: whoever finishes February in the number one spot on the leaderboard will win a free 30 minute 1:1 coaching session with me. Keep showing up. Keep participating. Keep supporting each other.🥰 Also a reminder, the Valentine’s Day Special for this group only is still up if you want to do a 1:1 session with me and get support this month. Please see this post for more details: https://www.skool.com/dating-with-clarity-6355/valentines-day-coaching-day-special?p=05028213 If you have any questions, just message me!
SHOUTOUT MONDAY!
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Good morning to you too and thank you for the shoutout! Like bad bunny says, “The Only Thing More Powerful Than Hate Is Love” ❤️♥️😌
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@Chris Hall 😂 you’re hilarious but thank you. I’m just doing my part. This community rules! 😎
Valentine’s Day Sample Party
So I had signed up online to go to this event called, “Valentines Day Sample Party” but there wasn’t much information on it just said that they have music, drinks etc. so I was a bit skeptical on going but I wanted to experience something different so I went last night to this party. On my way to the party, I felt nervous because I felt excitement and concerned at the same time because this area of my life called “Dating” was still new to me and I was not used to it especially the whole Valentine Day thing. And concerned for what might happen because I be stepping into the unknown not knowing what to expect and not have any control. So I got to the party and I have to sign up but then they ask me to sign this small “waiver” saying I be sampling products that might get me drunk and wouldn’t be able to operate my vehicle I was like ok haha. The people there were friendly and one lady approached me asking me if I knew what was going on I told her no and she said it’s a sampling event so the chicken wings and pastries here have stuff on them that could get me “HIGH” and to just be mindful of that and telling me about the drinks and so forth. Immediately after 20 mins passed though, I just left. This didn’t feel like my scene, the people weren’t the problem it was the space of the party was too short for a sold out event and obviously I didn’t know they be planning on getting high which what I don’t do. There was a lady sitting across from me but I didn’t plan on making conversation with her when I already had made up my mind about leaving. This event was not what was expecting or hoping for so I just took off. I am glad that I atleast took the initiative to go to the party and try to put myself out there but it could of been better and maybe I could of handled it better too but there you go. However, this is only the first part of my Valentine Day journey, I still plan to attend other events before February 14th! So there is still time 😌
Valentine’s Day Sample Party
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@Chris Hall Thanks Chris! This is only the beginning though! 😌
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Hi! I’m Jordan. I like to live life to the fullest and always in search to be in the company of someone special with whom I can share my life with! 😌

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Joined Oct 30, 2025
Houston, TX