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WIN THURSDAY!
Happy Thursday! Missed Win Wednesday so we are moving it this week to today!! What wins are you celebrating? Comment down below 👇
WIN THURSDAY!
Dating App Match
On Monday I matched with a girl on Hinge. I honestly have no expectations. But i replied to her profile. It said: 'I want someone who supports my hobbies, and interests, can handle some light ribbing/taking the piss out of eachother and can make me laugh.' Now I replied to this: Absolutely 100 yes! I hope (fingers crossed emoji) you don't cry though. She replied: Hope I don't cry ever??? Or just whilst bantering? My reply: Just whilst bantering ;) I hope you could take it hehe x Her: Well I wouldn't put it in my profile if couldn't 🧐🤪 My reply: Well I just wanted to double check that's all 😉😂 . What are you going to crochet for me? 😊Great hobby BTW x. (She mentioned Crochet in her profile so i played on it) Her reply: Crochet for you?!!!! It takes forever! 😂 x My reply: Oh... 😂 Plenty of time for me 😇 haha. How long have you been crocheting? You must have some good patience! X Her reply: I started last year and taught myself from youtube x My reply: Nice that's really good. I'd love to hear all about it person 😉. Got much planned for your day? X ----------------------- Now I only replied this morning my time at around 6AM. I saw her last message round 7PM my time, but felt I will wait as I'm not in a rush. But, I'm seeing how this goes. I'm pushing for a date next because she seems to be on my wave length. Banter is basically a British term of making fun of each other without meaning. Well, this was unexpected. Here's to Valentine's Week!
She said no!
Hand on heart; this is the most positive female interaction I have encountered so far! I asked for her phone number, she said "why", and I said "I want to get to know you". She said no and believe me it's a great step to be only rejected. I'm thankful she didn't cause a scene. And yes, I know we should go for more than a virtual mean, but baby steps.
Small Wins stack up.
Just sharing my recent win. On Monday at the Gym I was training legs and whilst resting between sets I turned around and saw a girl on the Leg Extension machine. She was getting off and looked right at me into my eyes. I nodded and said you alright. She said it back and walked to the treadmill. But she said it back with her headphones in lol. Anyways roll on to Friday morning. I was using the cable stack and she walked into the Gym with her friend. And looked at me right in the eyes again and I looked back. We didn't say anything but the look on her face was like oh it's that guy from Monday. I was just starting my set at the time. Let's see what happens next time 😉. Win: subconsciously saying you alright with no fear, and eye contact longer than usual.
WIN WEDNESDAY!!
Sound off in the comments down below! What are the things you are grateful for, appreciate, and celebrate (no matter how big or small)? Comment down below!
WIN WEDNESDAY!!
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