Month 1 / Week 4 • Know Yourself We had a real one on Wednesdays call. We talked about something most of us have lived but rarely say out loud — that we chase chemistry instead of safety. We feel that pull with someone. Everything moves fast. It feels electric. And somewhere underneath it we know something is off — but we don’t listen. Because our brain is already in it. The what ifs. The stories we tell ourselves. The hope that this one might be different. And the other person? They usually showed us exactly who they were from the very beginning. We just didn’t want to see it. We can’t blame them for that. We can only look at why we keep choosing the roller coaster over the calm. Finding the right partner deserves the same care and intention you’d give any important decision in your life. Think of it like hiring a CEO for your own company — you wouldn’t offer the job after one conversation. You’d take your time. Ask the hard questions. Make sure they’re worth it. Yet somehow with love we skip all the steps. Safety isn’t boring. Safety is the foundation everything else is built on. That’s what we talked about today. Every Monday 6PM PDT and Wednesday 11AM PDT Come as you are.

I thought and liveed as a straight man for many years even after my same sex attraction I felt at 14. When these feeling came back at 55 I pushed them off but now 12.years later they are still with me I cant hide them any more I am William cappola i am gay

Hi, I'm Pete. 77, an old sailor, retired and currently in Panama with my boat, Caroline.

Flying back to Europe from a trip to Cambodia, looking through endless idiotic films on Qatar airways I decided to watch Dr Zivago again , probably the 15th time in my life , it’s a stunning old classic, Carlo Ponti and David Lean at their finest. However after 40 mins I felt quite anxious, unwell … something in the body language of Lara was terrifying and so familiar, she was being abused , and by a close family friend, even with her mothers silent consent…. The look in her eyes ! Well the rest of that long flight I spent fighting the demons of my adolescence…. It’s going to be a rough ride for the next few days…. So just wanted to share this if anyone else gets triggered by such nonsense !

A normal brotherhood call where address whatever comes up but within the scope of “get to know yourself”! Things that seem challenging, things that made you grow, things that we need to learn etc If you shave something you want to bring to the table, comment and we’ll talk about it at our call. Can’t wait ☺️