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The Gay Men's Table
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6 contributions to The Gay Men's Table
Jul 1 •
Book Recommendations
- The Velvet Rage (Overcoming the pain of growing in a straight man's world) - Attached (New science of adult attachment and how it can help you find and keep love) - The ethical slut (A practical guide to polyamory, open relationships and other freedoms in sex and love) - Out of the shadows (Reimagining gay men's lives) If you have more book recommendations, please add them in the comments below. Also Dylan mentioned in our today's call that a bookclub would be awesome, what do you guys think, interested?
1 like • 22h
I hope i have internet tonight, this sounds like a great discussion topic. Also like the book club idea.
8d •
Coffee Hour Monday 6pm (08/09)
Topic: The walls we build to keep ourselves safe can also be the very things that keep us from creating the life we truly want. Who’s joining? 😌
2 likes • 8d
See you then, I hope.
29d •
Coffee Hour Monday 6pm PDT (07/20)
Brotherhood call! Topic idea: How to thrive in a culture of body perfection! Who’s joking, comment below or give me a thumbs up! ☺️
1 like • 29d
I find it difficult to meet men I am attracted to because of my age and age related body conditions that are viewed as ugly by the image driven society we live in today. It is the image of perfection that skews our sense of the real needs of emotional and physical attraction. I hope to be able to attend tonight discussion.
Jun 26 •
Chemistry gets your attention. Safety gets your heart.
Month 1 / Week 4 • Know Yourself We had a real one on Wednesdays call. We talked about something most of us have lived but rarely say out loud — that we chase chemistry instead of safety. We feel that pull with someone. Everything moves fast. It feels electric. And somewhere underneath it we know something is off — but we don’t listen. Because our brain is already in it. The what ifs. The stories we tell ourselves. The hope that this one might be different. And the other person? They usually showed us exactly who they were from the very beginning. We just didn’t want to see it. We can’t blame them for that. We can only look at why we keep choosing the roller coaster over the calm. Finding the right partner deserves the same care and intention you’d give any important decision in your life. Think of it like hiring a CEO for your own company — you wouldn’t offer the job after one conversation. You’d take your time. Ask the hard questions. Make sure they’re worth it. Yet somehow with love we skip all the steps. Safety isn’t boring. Safety is the foundation everything else is built on. That’s what we talked about today. Every Monday 6PM PDT and Wednesday 11AM PDT Come as you are.
1 like • Jun 26
Hey Frederik and whoever was there for the Wednesday coffee clatch. Sorry I missed that one, it sounds like the kind of topic I am interested in discussing with others as I tend to be alone so much of the time, without peers to examine the mutual experiences the we probably all have in common. I work on my boat during the days from about 7am until 2 or 3pm. I will try to be available on Mondays at 6 pdt (8pm here in panama)
Jun 20 •
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Hi, I'm Pete. 77, an old sailor, retired and currently in Panama with my boat, Caroline.
0 likes • Jun 24
I am in Caribbean Panama (no hurricanes here). I have a house here in Juan Gallego/La Guayra on the water with a direct view of the bay and Isla Grande. My boat is on the hard in Linton Bay Marina, one kilometer from the house. We are into a full refit and upgrades with many systems being added, revamped or replaced. Also, a full interior and exterior repaint and full cosmetics. Caroline is 49 years old and a unique 54', custom built long range expedition trawler. We hope to re-splash by Sept. or Oct.
0 likes • Jun 24
@Chris Black am in Caribbean Panama (no hurricanes here). I have a house here in Juan Gallego/La Guayra on the water with a direct view of the bay and Isla Grande. My boat is on the hard in Linton Bay Marina, one kilometer from the house. We are into a full refit and upgrades with many systems being added, revamped or replaced. Also, a full interior and exterior repaint and full cosmetics. Caroline is 49 years old and a unique 54', custom built long range expedition trawler. We hope to re-splash by Sept. or Oct. 0 Reply
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@pete-phillips-7287
Late 70s, gay, looking for LTR & friends, into men under 40.
Active 4h ago
Joined Jun 19, 2026
Juan Gallego, Panama