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The Gay Men's Table

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9 contributions to The Gay Men's Table
Where next ?
My Husband and I are in a strange situation, after 30 years of being drifters , floating from one country to another mostly in EU , we end up in Sweden because of Covid , France was so aggressive towards people who chose not to vaccinate, we moved there thinking it was cool and welcoming. Massive mistake …. Vile climate , 8 months of darkness…. I won’t bore you with the details but trust me it’s grim ! So now we want to leave …. Having 4 dogs , 2 parrots and a turtle it’s not so easy… I loved Cambodia … but that’s maybe to exotic for hubby and too hot ! Someone suggested Canada but I find their policies towards farmers and people scary …. Euthanasia etc ! So any cool ideas would be appreciated ❤️
How the ghosts of the past can be triggered by the most unpredictable events.
Flying back to Europe from a trip to Cambodia, looking through endless idiotic films on Qatar airways I decided to watch Dr Zivago again , probably the 15th time in my life , it’s a stunning old classic, Carlo Ponti and David Lean at their finest. However after 40 mins I felt quite anxious, unwell … something in the body language of Lara was terrifying and so familiar, she was being abused , and by a close family friend, even with her mothers silent consent…. The look in her eyes ! Well the rest of that long flight I spent fighting the demons of my adolescence…. It’s going to be a rough ride for the next few days…. So just wanted to share this if anyone else gets triggered by such nonsense !
Weekend Plans
Doing nothing lol What about you?
Weekend Plans
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Sunday Circle
There’s something most of us want but haven’t said out loud yet. What is it for you — and what would it take to actually go after it?
1 like • May 10
@Frederik Schaaf it’s a way of avoiding any form of conflict
1 like • May 10
@Frederik Schaaf That’s so true , thank you…. Sometimes you can’t see the wood from the trees until someone outside your bubble shows you how
Social media is getting more toxic
Sometimes I feel like deleting all social media accounts because I can’t cope anymore with the level of aggression and violence of people’s words ! Is it me being over sensitive or is there really a degeneration of speech ?
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Andrew Chidgey
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@andrew-chidgey-3222
Mid fifties , married , had a complicated life .Took years of therapy to burry the nightmares of sexual abuse as a child . Not vaccinated, and proud

Active 20h ago
Joined Apr 19, 2026
Sweden