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The Gay Men's Table

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My Husband and I are in a strange situation, after 30 years of being drifters , floating from one country to another mostly in EU , we end up in Sweden because of Covid , France was so aggressive towards people who chose not to vaccinate, we moved there thinking it was cool and welcoming. Massive mistake …. Vile climate , 8 months of darkness…. I won’t bore you with the details but trust me it’s grim ! So now we want to leave …. Having 4 dogs , 2 parrots and a turtle it’s not so easy… I loved Cambodia … but that’s maybe to exotic for hubby and too hot ! Someone suggested Canada but I find their policies towards farmers and people scary …. Euthanasia etc ! So any cool ideas would be appreciated ❤️
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I think you should talk to your husband and make a list of the nonnegotiables. Then ask chat what countries and cities would work based on the list you both have made. Once done, please share :D because I want to know 😬
Coffee Hour Monday 6pm PDT (06/29)
Hi everyone, For tomorrow evening's meeting, we are going to try something a little different and deeply nourishing to start our time together. Noor will be facilitating an informal Appreciation Circle to open our space. This will be a dedicated time to pause, acknowledge one another, and celebrate the gifts, support, and presence we bring to this collective. How to prepare: Please come in willing to give and receive appreciation from the heart. Let’s lean into this together and create a beautiful, connected experience. If time permits after we close the circle, we will transition into conversational mode. Looking forward to sharing this space with you all tomorrow! Who’s joining? ☺️ Frederik
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Chemistry gets your attention. Safety gets your heart.
Month 1 / Week 4 • Know Yourself We had a real one on Wednesdays call. We talked about something most of us have lived but rarely say out loud — that we chase chemistry instead of safety. We feel that pull with someone. Everything moves fast. It feels electric. And somewhere underneath it we know something is off — but we don’t listen. Because our brain is already in it. The what ifs. The stories we tell ourselves. The hope that this one might be different. And the other person? They usually showed us exactly who they were from the very beginning. We just didn’t want to see it. We can’t blame them for that. We can only look at why we keep choosing the roller coaster over the calm. Finding the right partner deserves the same care and intention you’d give any important decision in your life. Think of it like hiring a CEO for your own company — you wouldn’t offer the job after one conversation. You’d take your time. Ask the hard questions. Make sure they’re worth it. Yet somehow with love we skip all the steps. Safety isn’t boring. Safety is the foundation everything else is built on. That’s what we talked about today. Every Monday 6PM PDT and Wednesday 11AM PDT Come as you are.
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@Pete Phillips no worries! I hope I’ll see you on Monday :)
How the ghosts of the past can be triggered by the most unpredictable events.
Flying back to Europe from a trip to Cambodia, looking through endless idiotic films on Qatar airways I decided to watch Dr Zivago again , probably the 15th time in my life , it’s a stunning old classic, Carlo Ponti and David Lean at their finest. However after 40 mins I felt quite anxious, unwell … something in the body language of Lara was terrifying and so familiar, she was being abused , and by a close family friend, even with her mothers silent consent…. The look in her eyes ! Well the rest of that long flight I spent fighting the demons of my adolescence…. It’s going to be a rough ride for the next few days…. So just wanted to share this if anyone else gets triggered by such nonsense !
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It’s so interesting how it’s so anchored deep down in our body and after no many years out inner child still remembers.
Coffee Hour Wednesday 11am PDT (06/24)
A normal brotherhood call where address whatever comes up but within the scope of “get to know yourself”! Things that seem challenging, things that made you grow, things that we need to learn etc If you shave something you want to bring to the table, comment and we’ll talk about it at our call. Can’t wait ☺️
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