Aug 13 • General discussion
Your children feel your marriage…
Your children are emotionally and spiritually sensitive.
I don’t mean like they’ve worked to develop this sensitivity, they came with it.
I witnessed it for over 20 years.
They feel what’s really going on in environments.
They know when people are or aren’t safe.
We all came this way.
But over time, with a lack of others around them losing their own sensitivity, this gift often dulls.
It callouses.
It goes dormant.
It probably happened to most of us.
Now we are trying to remember what we knew long ago.
We are trying to become sensitive again to the environment we created and exist in. So we can live and not just exist anymore.
But here’s what we really need to become aware of.
Our kids…they feel us.
They feel our true condition.
They feel our marriage.
We may not, but they do.
We may not because we’ve become slaves to our subconscious habits that drive about 90-95% of everything we do.
Our tone, our facial expressions, our body language.
Here’s a fun fact: we communicate far more from our body language, facial expressions, and tone than we ever will from our words.
People remember how you make them feel, even if they forgot what you said.
Back to our kids…
They feel us.
They feel our environment and atmosphere far more than we may realize.
We are teaching them every moment what “normal” is, and often it’s not truly “normal”.
Not for believers.
Normal for believers feels more like heaven than earth or hell.
Over the last 2 years of working to help families become emotionally whole, I’ve realized someone very profound and enlightening.
I’ve been trying to help parents create a healthy home for their kids and have discovered that it starts inside each parent, then it’s their marriage, then it’s family.
I had the cart before the horse.
Because the kids feel the marriage.
They feel each parent.
They are either safe or not all by what they feel at home.
Starting with us.
So I’m changing the entire course on emotionally whole families.
I’ve been researching, studying, and practicing more and more what I’ve discovered.
My internal world emotionally influences everything.
My marriage’s internal world emotionally does too.
I’m no longer working first to create a healthy family.
I’m starting with the individual parents.
Then we go directly into the marriage.
To strengthen the areas that are either supporting and facilitating our dream for our kids or stunting it.
I’ll let you know more about the course soon, but we are switching from a 4 month course, to a 2 month course.
Working on you and your marriage.
After that, phase 2 and 3 will be available for parents who’ve gone through phase 1.
Keep a look out, this will change everything.
Because this will change you.
This will change your marriage.
This will change what your kids feel.
This will change what your home’s environment and atmosphere feel like to everyone under your roof.
This will bring heaven in and remove hell.
Details coming soon.
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Your children feel your marriage…
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