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Seeing a video of Charlie Kirk assassinated really troubled me. I didn't ask to see it... it popped up on my feed and I saw the blood coming out of his throat. He was a father to two beautiful babies. How are ya'll handling it in America? I've prayed and cried... Charlie was turning 32 next month, same age as me. I'm devastated... For his wife, the family...

Have you or someone you know ever struggled with isolating themselves because of feeling unheard, rejected and or let down by others? What are some tools you use, ideas you have, things you tell yourself or the person to help them out of that place? 🤔

There are so many times we are performing instead of showing what’s really going on in us. One was to recognize it is when we say we’re “fine” when we aren’t. Here’s an acronym for fine: F-eelings I-nside N-ot E-xpressed Whenever we say we’re fine, it can be helpful to check on ourselves, or our spouse, or our kids, if there are some feelings that need to be expressed.