Here, I explain a bit about finding my voice after Narcisstic Abuse. I explain how empathy is connected toward considering someone's best interests so you can help someone by meeting their needs. The connection between trauma and disconnect, which develops our preferences. How service is a ministry, to meet a need, as is being in the people business. What trust is. When it's given, when it's earned. Adjusting your Social Contract with people. Looking for the double positives in relationships so you can have conscious collaborative relationships. How to love yourself and others when other peoples' love is fueled with unhealthy expectations. My song, The Social Contract, and the explanation of The 4 Agreements within it. Boundaries. Self-love. Connection. --- 06:40–13:00+ The "Social Contract": A 4-Point Framework for Healthy Relationships Point 1: "I am responsible for my own emotions." Adults must self-regulate; making others responsible for your feelings is a manipulation tactic. Point 2: "I am willing to improve and accept feedback." This openness is crucial for growth and indicates potential for a healthy connection. Point 3: "I will communicate to connect with people so I can be understood." The intention to connect is key, not just talking at someone. He warns against the toxic need to be understood, which can lead to "emotional vomiting." A healthy boundary is stating your needs and being willing to walk away if they are repeatedly violated. Point 4: "In acceptance of this family, I will also raise someone else." The goal is touplift the human spirit. --- #Boundaries #NarcissticAbuse #TheSocialContract

Upon sharing my ideas, someone just said to me... "It sounds like an awesome dive into the subconscious of someone who has a particular awareness that they use to develop a greater sense of inner self. A biography of sorts. I was intrigued because I have cameras I want to use, and I was considering filming my life, but needed a focus, a basis, or some relevant theme to share because while my life is fascinating to me, recording just to record may not fully capture what makes my life so thrilling. It is perhaps, my present state, having reprogrammed my subconscious, and knowing the difference that has made in my life which makes each day so amazing." Yes, this is true, and at the end of the day, the accomplishments and the achievements, the things you will become most proud of and can take with you will be your character. It defines you. Your skills, they make up what you produce. Your wisdom creates efficiency in the way you do you. All in all, how you approach life will change for your betterment - because the place you start from is in the right place. You've got your chaos in order. Getting to the next destination is just a step away. It's all in being all-in on the current piece for which you have to execute with, and moving it without having it wasted so you can learn the lesson, take it, and integrate it. That's what you're capturing. Be the hero in your journey, and when the opportunity calls, don't let it slip. #ADtalk it now.

The first #ADtalk Review. I went heavy! I've been waiting for weeks for someone to schedule with me after having used my process. And now, you have a very valuable video to review. Here are the highlights: 2:08 How to Embed a Youtube Link into Your Skool Post 2:35 Why to Put the Description in the Body of Your Skool Post 3:10 How to Compose Your Description with PPHS and a Goal in Summary 7:01 How to Play Yourself Back Muted. Do You Even Like Yourself When Viewing Just Your Body Language? Other People? 8:29 How Awareness Documentation's Primary Function is to Identify Your Needs and To Find Out How to Meet Them, and the Needs of Others Too 10:00 How You Can Not Heal Relational Trauma Outside the Context of Relationships, and the #ADtalk Integrates Your Relational Trauma Within the Context of Your Relationships 11:26 How to Break Down Mental Confusion When Distressed with the #ADtalk by Having a Meeting With Yourself 12:20 Why All of Your Power is in How You Respond, and Remixing Your Suffering into Your Joy in How You Approach Life and Have a Relationship with the Universe and Yourself 13:03 How Expressing From a Present State of Awareness Connects the Past and the Future 15:00 The Direction for Self-Expression Toward Your Moving Forward with Progress 15:53 Just Because You Have One Belief Now Does Not Mean You Don't Need to Reassess That Belief Later 18:04 How to Identify the Problem in the #ADtalk, Where Boundaries Can Be Identified 19:49 How to Begin with the End in Mind and Embody Faith for God to Express Through You 20:42 How Expressing Your Truth and Aligning with it Allows You to Identify with a Belief and Disidentify with it For God to Speak to and Get Past Your Ego for You to Receive the Information that Will Serve You. Your Chance to Have a Conversation with God. 23:00 How Self-Help With Self-Healing Creates Self-Awareness...Why Being With The Pain is the Link Between Self-Help and Self-Awareness, and Why the Self-Development Industry Misses Healing and Serves as a Recipe for Disaster.

It's a wonderful little trait that has us question ourselves and an other. Can we really mix? Are we really perfect as separate individuals, or consequentially as a whole? What is it that defines us within this role? . Compatibility comes down to how well when we two humans can relate to each other, can we live with each other without wanting to change one another. And how do we mean exactly? . Well, simply put, if there is something within you that brings out something within another that doesn't work between the two of you, and one of you wants the other to change, and the other is unwilling to do so, that therefore means that you are incompatible, and it is time you move forward without them if that incompatibility is a dealbreaker. . Don't get me wrong. Some relationships are worth retaining as some things are just resolved by not resolving them, small things where I am right and you are wrong doesn't matter and love needs to shine through... . But there are other things, major things, whereby one absolutely cannot tolerate within another, such as not being responsible for one's emotions and placing that responsibility for emotional regulation unto the other - whilst also creating problems and drama out of nowhere that makes it necessary to resolve their conflicts before the natural flow of the relationship can resume...And the one resolving the conflict wants them to stop, but they won't and don't want to, so the relationship ends - because their unmet need is to be seen in a way that helps them resolve their internal trauma at anothers' detriment. . In general, incompatibility comes as a result of one person experiencing a negative, and the other experiencing a negative or a positive, but because the person who is experiencing the negative cannot get the other to view their negative as a negative as well and convert their actions to align with what would give them a positive, it becomes a win lose scenario and in so doing, a lose lose because one person compromises, and the other is happy, and this will take a toll on the relationship short and especially long-term.

If you're struggling with loving yourself enough to do the right thing for yourself, I've got a solution for you! @Di Dutton here was held back by the fear and limiting belief that what they do can't be compensated for. Non-reciprocal relations based on her level of openness given her closedness to receiving is something she needs to open her beliefs in. If you're having trouble both giving and receiving at the same time, this video will be of help to you. This all relates back to the self-identity in connection to the other, and one's lifelong quest to learn to love the self and the other at the same time.