If you're struggling with loving yourself enough to do the right thing for yourself, I've got a solution for you!
here was held back by the fear and limiting belief that what they do can't be compensated for. Non-reciprocal relations based on her level of openness given her closedness to receiving is something she needs to open her beliefs in. If you're having trouble both giving and receiving at the same time, this video will be of help to you.
This all relates back to the self-identity in connection to the other, and one's lifelong quest to learn to love the self and the other at the same time.