Hey everyone! Glad to be here and in the tribe. I didn’t really know what to say for my first post, chat, whatever you wanna call it. Anyway, I was just wondering if anyone’s been through anything similar and especially if anyone has some advice for this situation, anyway to the point.
I’ve had some concerns with my girlfriend and her family cause she’s been doing maybe 90% of everything for her family. Now I get it if they need it in a pinch or if they just need her to get them something or something like that, but this is just every. Single. Day. Genuinely all year she’s cooking their food, cleaning the whole house and she’s caring for her younger siblings while her mums just sitting around and reaping the benefits. Her mum doesn’t even let her out the house half the time. It’s gotten to the point where she’s using self harm (sh) religiously, granted she hasn’t been able to stop shing since she was a child as that’s how long she’s been doing everything for her family. This could just be me being paranoid but I’m really concerned for her safety and welling.
If you have any questions or need any more context just ask and I’ll tell you whatever you need to know.
Thanks even for just reading this far!