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🚨 Jan 20th LIVE Call with Monterey Watch Co. Founder 🚨
Gents - quick heads up. On Jan 20th at 5PM CST, we’ve got Tim Hermes founder of Monterey Watch Co. joining us live. ✅ Check the Calendar tab and save the date: https://www.skool.com/rmrs/calendar?eid=94126c3b5f2147e58265409f2fdd5db8 This masterclass perfect if you’ve ever thought: - “I like watches… but I’m not sure what fits my style.” - “How do I pick one that looks intentional with business casual?” - “What actually makes a watch look sharp vs just expensive?” Drop a comment: What’s your go-to watch style right now - dress, diver, field, or everyday sports?
🚨 Jan 20th LIVE Call with Monterey Watch Co. Founder 🚨
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Last Year’s Wins 🎉 This Year’s Focus 🎯
Gents, before we move too far into 2026, I want you to pause and look back intentionally. 1️⃣ Last Year Wins What’s 1–3 wins from last year you’re proud of? Doesn’t have to be massive. Progress counts — consistency, discipline, better decisions. Style upgrade you stuck with? A fragrance you finally made your signature? A watch milestone, collection refinement, or learning moment? A habit you strengthened, a distraction you cut, or a standard you raised 2️⃣ This Year’s Focus What’s 1–2 goals you’re deliberately committing to this year - not wishing for, but committing to? Could be... Sharpening your personal style as a form of self-respect Building a tighter, more intentional fragrance rotation Becoming more educated, patient, and disciplined with watches Showing up with more consistency - physically, mentally, and professionally Raising your standards in how you present yourself to the world Drop your wins and your focus below. Let’s build on what worked. And cut what didn’t!
Last Year’s Wins 🎉 This Year’s Focus 🎯
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Introduce Yourself (ALL Intros HERE Please!)
OK, so by introducing yourself you are guaranteed to get to level 2 - it's really that easy and I LOVE learning more about the cool people in this group. Feel free to share where you're from, why you're here, what you do for a living, and what you like about style. Are you a watch guy, suit guy, fragrance guy, or maybe just getting started? Have fun here!
Introduce Yourself  (ALL Intros HERE Please!)
OOTD - Friday 16 Jan
Today I thought I would do a Classic charcoal suit with a crisp white shirt, for that timeless look. I have also added some personality to make it more me. I played with a couple of photo’s as I thought it looked almost like a detective, so I was looking out of the window on our new room trying to make it look like an abandoned warehouse. Todays Outfit consists of: M.J. Bale Ashford Suit in Charcoal M.J. Bale Diamond Weave White Shirt TrendHim Tie in Brown with Micro-dots Oxford Patterned Socks OTAA Plain White Cotton Pocket square OTAA Penguin Lapel pin Stanton Gentlemen Fedora in Charcoal Finished with a smart, sophisticated pair of Brando Gaeten St Lace Up shoes SOTD - Versace Eros Flame. It is the coolest day of the year here so far. WOTD - Tudor Royal 41
OOTD - Friday 16 Jan
Brisk WFH day: The Tie
Had a 7:00 Rotary meeting to be followed by a WFH day. Let me get the OOTD out of the way. MTM Black and White Houndstooth, Hanna Donnegal Tweed black w white flecks, black cotton long sleeve polo shirt over a grey Glen plaid shirt, yellow/gold Robert Talbot tie, Levi’s button front black 501 jeans, Pendleton Socks, Salomon black trail runners, Seiko Model 5 automatic. The Tie- I and a few others in this community come from an era where the outfit I have on today would be extremely casual for a workday. On any given weekday every middle to higher end restaurant at breakfast, lunch and dinner would be full of guys wearing a tie. In my college days in the early 1980’s it wouldn’t be terribly unusual for guys to don a tie to go out on a weekend on a date or with a group of guys if they were headed to a nice series of bars. In Richmond, Va where I spent the majority of my 20s and 30’s from about Thanksgiving through the end of the year most dinner parties through the end of the year - guys wore ties to each other’s house. The Tie especially a tasteful classic is the one garment that can “tie” together the entire ensemble. That’s what today’s OOTD is trying to portray. In trying to find a way to upgrade my black w black polo and jeans combo- I grabbed the glenplaid shirt and a yellow with black pretty formal styled tie. This allowed me to upgrade with the sportcoat ( except for the hat - the last item chose). I could blather on about the sad loss of ties in menswear and how the degradation of men’s classic style has coincided with it but I would rather stay on the positive side. Why not learn the art of adding a necktie to complete an ensemble. It’s as much a feature of completing a color combination as it is about formality. The bland department store monotone outfits of the past 10-15 years has A ) guys all look like a GAP ad and B) afraid to add colors and accents that finish an outfit. I challenge any guy who rarely wears a tie to take their significant other out, even if to an Applebees quality restaurant and tell her that your wearing a tie (enough time in advance- gals get funny about being out dressed). Or do like @Alan Dormire and @Chad Smith and I, wear a tie on a wfh day. At first you might feel very weird. But think of it like that first day at the gym, or singing in public, or casting a fly rod, or using a new driver.
Brisk WFH day: The Tie
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