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Time to get personal

Good morning gentlemen,

When I was growing up as a kid we wore pajamas. As I got older I always thought pajamas as for kids and old men clothing. And I'm sure myself and many of us went through that commando period of sleeping all natural. Then there was the period of wearing sweat pants or shorts to bed. So one day not too long ago, I was re evaluating my life, style, wardrobe, I was looking at clothes online and I saw these men in pajamas and matching robes. My first immature impression was “ man, they moved into grandpa status at an early age.” But then for some reason I kept looking at these pajamas and robes. Then I was listening to one of the pod cast about gentleman’s sleep wear and they were talking about men’s pajamas. I kept thinking “ I can’t sleep in that I would feel constrained!” But then I was like “ Okay, I am going back to that to that negative common rationale of what everyone is doing.”

So I made a decision that I was going to give it a try. So I went to Walmart and found a pair of men’s pajamas, thinking “ I’ll get a cheap set so if I don’t like them I am not out a lot of money.” So I bought a pair and that night I put them on. To my surprise I was not only comfortable but it was like I had the best sleep in a long time. Now, my first impression was “ I was just really tired.” So the next night I wore them again. And I continued to wear them and I was sleeping more comfortable at night. I then was like “ Man, this is amazing.” Now I started thinking I want to get some more but better quality pairs of pajamas and get matching robes to put on instead of the old robe that I had for years that most of the time hung up in the closet.

So I I found a couple of sets in Satan and flannel for colder nights. But what I found out is this. I use to shower throw on some sweat pants and a old logo shirt ( that is what I use my old logo shirts for now) and read, lounge around the house, maybe watch a movie or something. But now after showering and putting on my pajamas and matching robe, I feel so relaxed and comfortable at home. I even have a pair of nice house slippers instead of the socks, flip flops, or bare foot method that I use to do,

My wife told me that she loved seeing me in my pajamas and matching robe and house slippers because I look so nice and comfortable. To the point she ordered her some nice silk night shirts and robes for herself and a very nice pair of house slippers with a nice little heel. And when she started sleeping in them and wearing them at night she said that she has never slept so well and comfortable around the house at night and first thing in the morning before getting ready for the day and the end of the day.

This now elevated us into more better quality linens and sheets. And now are evening and morning are filled with relaxation and enjoyment. I encourage all you gentlemen if you have the mindset that I had, give it a shot. You will be surprised the difference it makes in your evenings and mornings.

One more added thing:

Gentlemen, keep in mind that, we love to see our wives, girlfriends , significant others in nice silk or satin sleeps shirts, night gowns, negligee, with nice perfume hair looking nice. Don't you think they deserve the same from us? Looking back, me crawling into bed with sweat pants and a faded old logo shirt, yeah I’m sure that creamed take me baby! 😒 Gentlemen we have to do better. and trust me they will notice and they will appreciate the effort.( Trust me!)

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