Introduction · Marriage Recovery Community

Introduction

Hi All, as an introduction to me and what is happening. Myself and my wife will have been married 25 years in September. In November last year, on a walk she asked me if I thought we were drifting apart. I said no as I honestly did not think we were. A brief chat ensued where she thought we were and mentioned things about me that annoyed her. I said I would take action but earlier this year during a few words at bed time she said she felt she did not love me any more. I immediately went defensive and a long argument/discussion ensued. Since then I have increased focus on my previous failings and have given her as much space as possible and this week she is away with friends as part of her 50th birthday celebrations. I have also been reading lots of resources and have spoken to a therapist and lifestyle coach recently and feel in a better place personally. I am hoping that being away has given her a lot of the space she needed but am obviously aware that I cannot expect much change in a short period of time though recently I have seen positive glimpses.

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Introduction