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Check in maybe. LOL

Had a great weekend with the wife, although she’s still withdrawn from the relationship and set on separating. We talked, laughed, shared household chores, ran errands together. She even laid down and let me massage her and she fell asleep. I think all of this is the hardest to deal with, bc what does this stuff mean?! Does she want the relationship to work?? It also can make you want to chase, bc that stuff feels good. I’m doing my best to stay in my lane. I’m trying to show up as a man she can count on, and watching for the bids for connection. In my 45 years self improvement is the hardest thing I’ve faced. If anyone has advice or anything similar to share please do.

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