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Hey everyone, Chris Scott here. If you're reading this, you found your way to the free Fit Recovery community on Skool. I'm glad you did. A few things to know before you dive in. I'm not going to tell you to quit drinking on Day One. I think most of the conventional advice on this stuff has the order of operations completely backwards, which is part of why so many people relapse over and over and end up convinced they're broken. They're not broken. The order is wrong. Here's what I figured out the hard way over a decade of trying and failing to fix this on my own, and then twelve+ years of helping other people do it: alcohol dependence is a biochemical disorder first and a willpower problem a distant second. When the chemistry is depleted (and after enough drinking, it always is), your nervous system is screaming at you. No amount of meetings or journaling or "just stop" advice is going to drown out that screaming. So in here, the first thing I'm going to help you do is knock your biochemical cravings down by 90%. That's the name of the free course in the Classroom and it's exactly what it does. Once the cravings are no longer running the show, you can actually think. Once you can think, you get to decide. Some people, once the chemistry is fixed, want a life beyond alcohol. Not "without" it as some grim deprivation thing, but beyond it, where alcohol is just irrelevant to who you are. That's the path I personally went down, and it's what we explore in here for people who want to go that direction. Other people find that knocking out the cravings lets them moderate without it taking over their lives. Both are real outcomes. The point is you get to choose with a clear head, instead of your nervous system choosing for you. A few practical things: 1. Introduce yourself in the comments below. Tell us your first name, where you're at with alcohol right now, and one thing you want to be different 30 days from now. Doesn't need to be elaborate. "Sleeping through the night," "Cravings down so I can think straight," "Figuring out if I actually want to drink or just feel like I have to" — whatever's true for you. Don't overthink it.
Skin care
Hi everyone hope all is well What does everyone use for skin care, I briefly remember reading an article that either Chris or Matt wrote that mentioned coconut oil and possibly beef tallow Cheers
Why do we drink even more after relapses?
I have given up a several times for weeks or months in the last years, only to reach for "just one" glass over a stressful or upsetting situation. And each time, more and bigger glasses! Bizarre.
BioRebalance
I started taking BioRebalance Restore on Sunday, and while I’m not sure I’ve noticed any major differences yet, there’s something motivating about knowing I’m intentionally supporting my brain with nutrients that may help with hormones, neurotransmitters, and some of the damage that 20 years of alcohol abuse has likely caused. It’s funny being someone who is health conscious, works out, cares about longevity, and does all sorts of things to improve my body…but still somehow finds a way to binge drink on the weekends. That contradiction has always stood out to me but now that I’m in my 40’s it’s even more apparent. Another big motivator for me is that my grandmother suffered from dementia before she passed, and my father now has full-blown Alzheimer’s. So there may already be some genetic risk there. It feels lime I’m playing with fire if I continue to drink! For those further along in alcohol-free living, what brain-health improvements have you noticed and what do you feel helped the most?
Some days are still harder than others
I post a lot of the good stuff here - it’s always awesome to see the progress, to get out of the fog and feel alive again….but some days are still harder than others. The last 2 days I’ve had really strong cravings. Not for any other reason than the massive amount of stress I’ve had dumped on me at work the last 3 weeks. Stress is real but stress management is what’s important and I do pretty well for the most part. I’m strong, I’ve got a lot of grit, and I don’t get my feelings hurts by almost anyone but….I am a manager in a male dominated field. Have been for a really long time, it’s not new to me. This ā€œteam,ā€ however, is new to me and I’ve never known so many man-babies to exist in one room. They’re known in for their toxic atmosphere, for running off managers…I won’t be run off, but their habitual ā€œanonymousā€ reporting to HR and being investigated just gets old no matter who you are. Of course the claims have all been unfounded and I knew they would be, but it’s still the idea of being in a room where you never know who is going to smile to your face and turn on you behind your back. I hope after this last go-round, these guys start to straighten up. I haven’t caved, I got an iced vanilla latte with an extra shot of espresso instead, lol, and enough club soda to keep the company in business, but the craving to just numb it is still definitely there. Even this morning. I’m going to go and get some sunshine and do something productive in my wood shop, maybe mow. I won’t lie, I hate yard work šŸ˜‚. It might have something to do with the fact I thought I had to be miss-I-can-do-it-by-myself and buy a country house on 5 acres. Lol. I do have horses on about half of it so that helps a smidge. Going to get through another day until the craving goes away. šŸ’ŖšŸ½ I like to pinpoint my cravings now, so I can talk myself through what I ACTUALLY need. No, I don’t need beer to numb the fact that I’m feeling stressed and pressure from some boys who don’t like following policies and procedures. No way am I going to let people who don’t truly matter to me at the end of the day cause me to mess up my personal goals - they aren’t worth the spiral.
Some days are still harder than others
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