Jan 22 • General discussion
Resistance
So then, resistance, I’m really experiencing this - why?
Well after so long of running round like a fucking idiot after absolutely everyone, friends, family and colleagues and utterly burning myself out and suffering really bad mental health. I’ve stopped, I’ve not downed tools but I’ve just started to care and focus on me.
Friends and family do not like it, I declined offers to do stuff for people and just said I already have plans, which I do - the plans are to do what I want.
My partner thinks I’m potentially being lazy as I’m doing all the stuff I used to do but not a often - there is food in the fridge, clean clothes, the place is hoovered and mopped etc all the chores done more between us than usual. But I just said it all doesn’t need to be done as often and if we compare it most likely 90% of places ours would be a palace. I’ve just said I’m not doing it any more.
I’ve started the gym, I go on walks and do ad-lib iPhone photography plus other stuff just for me and yet there is resistance but I’m not bothered I feel more settled within myself than ever.
I’m happy to shrink my life circle to give myself more quality time. If that can’t be supported and understood just shows the selfishness it people.
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