It had just occurred to me that the concept of Speed Dating is a sham. Why? Because the men have to rotate and what that does is make us look needy and seeking validation. That kills attraction. I want my presence resonating throughout the establishment that women can feel it from across the room.

Something I’ve been catching myself on lately is over-explaining, especially in situations where brevity would’ve been enough. Extra context. Extra justification. Extra words. It all lowers your status. Most of the time, nothing actually needs defending. Where have you noticed over-explaining costing you time, energy, or leverage? And what’s helped you dial it back?

We talk a lot about adding skills, habits, and routines. Lately I’ve been noticing the opposite has mattered just as much. What’s one thing you stopped doing that noticeably improved your life? Could be a behavior, mindset, habit, relationship dynamic, or time sink. Not looking for theory, just real-world changes that actually stuck.

It's only about who stands in the rain with you when they have the choice to be dry, remember that Gentlemen. Not everyone who smiles at you, talks to you, and knows you wants you to succeed. Be very cautious of who you allow to be in your inner circle. Not everyone deserves that right, some people are just meant to be around you for a season, and other's for a reason. Onwards Gentlemen.

Guys, I got invited by a female teammate for content creation to a photoshoot/music video mixer, in about a week. She is one of the organizers. Right now I'm sending out invites, using a flyer provided by the organizer, Instagram. Another model that I cold DM'ed showed some interest, asking for more information. Which I gave her. Telling her that its a photoshoot and music video session. I gave her the link to the song the video will be based on. This model's last question was "is it paid?". I already messaged by "No, its TFP" (trade for print). Her instagram profile is a business account and some models do have in their bios "dm for rates and booking". My question is, is there a way to word these things so that a model wants to show up without getting paid, but gets value from the photoshoot?