Thanks for voting in the poll guys. The next podcast I'll create will be about the narcissism in Nice Guy Syndrome, and the weird inept god complex we suffer from. What questions would you like to see answered in this episode?

Since Dan wants more engagement, I will reluctantly post something.. I am currently going through the different contents, be it in podcasts, blog posts or courses. I made some progress since joining, as I worried a lot about my reputation, but I enjoyed the blog post about being non-defensive which cleared my beliefs concerning someone badmouthing me would propagate to everyone in the room. At the same time I still have some shame about my current situation: not having a job, living with my parents, that could be used against me, so being non-defensive would be difficult I guess in these cases. So I guess the first step would be for me to stop rejecting myself because of that.

Most guys care what people think of them. A LOT. They outsource their self-worth to the real and imagined judgments of others. A vague look, a sharp tone, an eye-roll, a slow reply, a bit of criticism… and suddenly you’re doing mental gymnastics trying to “fix” how you’re perceived. Of all the Nice Guy Syndrome problems I've had, this is one of the few that I feel I have completely CURED for myself. I'm now at the point where caring about someone's opinion of me doesn't even make sense; it simply doesn't register as information that matters to me at all. I believe anyone can learn to let go of caring what others think and getting defensive. It's just a matter of changing the way you get validation and process reactions from others. So I've created a practical playbook-style guide you can use to stop being needy for validation and emotionally hurt by criticism from other people. This concise guide covers: - What it really means to "care" what others think - The mental model: how to fill your own cup with self-validation - The 7 filters that make judgements against you powerless - The practical exercise (do this today) to make this real - The “never defend yourself” drill - Build your self-worth system (the real foundation to long term confidence) Comment "Confident!" to get a copy of it! You have until the end of Fri this week to get your copy. This playbook is a brief guide for the "How to Not Give a Fuck" workshop I'll be running next Tues, (exclusive and free for VIP members only): https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/calendar?eid=fd962f8e69b4497e941dfbb8ad760da7 This short workshop will be all about how to train yourself to stop caring what other people think of you, so that you're socially confident and free at all times! Dan

Hey guys I'm doing a big planning day this weekend, and much of my focus will be on improving this community. I noticed the chat has died down a bit lately, probably because I've been posting too much content. I'd love to hear from you guys what would you like to see more of/less of in this group to make it a place that's somewhere you want to visit and interact with regularly. Comment below with your ideas, or simply click some of the options I've posted in this poll

Hey everyone It's been a hell of a weekend. Brojo.org was temporarily down, now resolved , which also means my [email protected] email address can receive emails again. I'm hoping to have this resolved soon.(EDIT) I've also been banned permanently from Facebook. Not really sure why but I am sure there's nothing I can do about it. I can't even set up a new profile (face recognition prevents it). So my Groups and Pages on there are probably going to have to die slowly because I didn't think to set up a back-up admin, and Messenger obviously doesn't work for me anymore. If you need to contact me, please use WhatsApp +420605446442 I'll keep you all posted on developments thanks! Dan