Most people think willpower is the secret to consistency. But here's what neuroscience reveals: your brain is literally wired to keep you safe, not successful. Every time you try something new, your subconscious pulls the emergency brake. The solution isn't more motivation - it's reprogramming the unconscious patterns that sabotage your follow-through. Here's a simple reframe that works: Instead of "I have to do this" (resistance), try "I get to become someone who does this" (identity shift). Your brain stops fighting change when you're becoming, not just doing. If you're ready to break the cycle of starting strong and fading fast... I'm running a 30-day FLAME challenge starting Monday that combines neuroscience-backed techniques with daily accountability. Here’s what we are aiming for - getting you the Skool 🔥 beside your name… because consistency matters! And here’s the kicker - the questions I’ll pose to you over the 30 days will not only help you become a superstar in Skool, it will also build momentum for your other goals. It’s a WIN-WIN for everyone who plays. We start Monday 29th September. You can find the details here: https://www.skool.com/the-switch-1077/the-flame-challenge-starts-monday?p=80d9ca91 🎯 Come join us. Get the 🔥 beside your name. Achieve momentum towards your goals.🚀 P.S. This isn't about grinding harder. It's about programming yourself to BE the person who follows through naturally. ✨

I was really hoping to be able to post today that we had made it into the 100s in Discovery because we've been soooooo close, but alas, it was not to be! However, we've made some major strides, and your content is being seen by more and more people every day. In addition, so many of you have added numerous members to your Skool groups, and the momentum is rising! I'm excited for you all. Once again, your referrals are greatly appreciated, don't stop. The tide is rising, and it is lifting all our boats! 🛶 Here are the metrics for the past 7 days: Members: 143 Rank in Discovery: #205 (+79) Active Members (last 30 days): 98% Highest Activity Day: 873 activities Lowest Activity Day: 225 activities Traffic (last 7 days): 205 About page visits (+64) Sign Ups (last 7 days): 35 (+7) Conversion Rate: 17.07% (-2.79%) The Context: 1. Obviously, I'm super pumped about the ranking in Discovery. This is due to the amount of engagement in the group, so please keep posting, commenting, and liking each others' posts. The better our visibility, the better it is for everyone. My goal is to get to the top 100 by the end of October! 2. Mona contacted Skool and asked about the Active Member metric (thanks @Mona Weathers ) and they told her is was the members' activity on the platform, not in the group, so I've decided to completely ignore this metric. I guess it would be useful if you were struggling to get engagement in your group because you would know whether or not you are talking to people who are even engaged on the platform, but if it's not a reflection of the engagement in this group, I'm not really worried about it. Curious to hear your thoughts, though... 3. Our highest activity day is the highest of all time, so that's amazing! 👏 4. We have had more About page visits and more signups than last week, but the conversion rate is lower. Again, I'm not too worried about the conversion rate because this is a public group, and the goal is to get eyes on the page, not necessarily conversions...

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You know that spike of panic when you open Skool, see 47 notifications, and suddenly your amazing post idea feels impossible? I've been there. Multiple times this week, actually. I get excited about sharing something valuable, then I see all those notifications and think "I need to respond to everyone first" and then "how will I have time to create my post" and before I know it... I've closed the app and avoided it for the rest of the day. But yesterday I discovered something that might change everything. I stumbled upon a video by Vinh Giang, a renowned communications coach I highly recommend his work. He was talking about a confidence framework that blew my mind. Here's the key insight: we don't need to feel confident before we look confident - we need to look and sound confident before we feel confident. When we act, look, and sound confident, even our own brain perceives us as more confident. I've experienced this myself - put on a sharp suit? I feel different. Use communication techniques I've practiced? Instant confidence boost. So I started wondering: does this work online too? What does "looking confident" mean when we're just text on a screen? What does "sounding confident" mean when people are reading our words, not hearing our voice? Here's what I think I've figured out so far: Visual Confidence Online: - Posting quickly with authentic emotion (not overthinking every word) - Using GIFs that match your personality - Consistent voice across all your posts and comments - Well-structured longer posts that feel like YOU, not an overly-edited version of you Auditory Confidence Online: - Comments that sound natural, not sterilized - Punctuation that has personality (your style, not grammar perfection) - Taking up space with your ideas instead of apologizing for them I'm going to experiment with these ideas and see what works. I'm going experiment by trying to applying one of these confidence behaviors to each post and comment I make this week.

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