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What is the hardest task in growing plants?
Let’s discuss our plant growing challenges.
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2 likes • 5d
Remembering to water them is one. Also when to water them. Some plants require more water than others. For example Aleo Vera doesn't need weekly watering. But my Asian pears need it every 3 to 4 days. Depending where they are in the growing stages. I learned this through trail an error. But I'd have to say for most, its water schedule, and how much watering differents plants need.
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@Jim Flach yes sir it is, I still havent gotten things cleared and cleaned up. We got hit with snow, again, and might be getting some more this weekend. So, may not be getting anything ready till maybe the middle of February.
Herbal Education
Hello Community, Several of you mentioned you want to grow herbs this year, so I thought it’d be a good time to start an herb conversation as the season begins to shift. I added some starter information in the Herbal Classroom (more is coming soon). I’m also attaching a simple primer on doshas / constitution, the internal tendencies that influence how we feel day to day. Before we match herbs to a symptom, it helps to understand your baseline: - Do you tend to be dry or moist? For example, is your mouth usually dry or does it stay damp? - Does it change at different times of day? - Do you tend to be cool or warm? Are you generally cold-natured or warm-natured? From there, we can choose herbs more wisely with some are warming and drying, others are cooling and moistening. What helps us best depends on what your body is asking for. Remember, you’re the only one who can truly hear your body speak. What herb are you most excited to grow this year?
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Herbal Education
4 likes • 13d
I love this topic, so I am going to speak my truth with no shame in my game. I do have menopause. Due to it my symptoms may differ and also shifts a lot. I am also anemic ( I have tried it all, and nothing has helped.) So, by the Afternoon I see my mouth get dry. My nature I am cold, but also at night I feel like I overheat, not a new symptom, I've always been this way, its gotten worse because of the transition of womanhood I am going through at the moment.
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@Jim Flach thank you! I appreciate it so much! Im about to gi make some tea now. Lol, so going to see which ones have those ingredients. But I'm definitely going to start buying actual tea loves dried by local tea makers in my area.
Forward Momentum
Hello Community, I shared a few introductory LM videos to help us start seeing soil as a living neighborhood, not just dirt. Plants don’t thrive just because minerals exist, they thrive because soil life makes those minerals available. Synthetic fertilizers can act like a chemical “IV” pushing quick growth, but in nature, plants are fed through relationships between bacteria, fungi, protozoa, nematodes, arthropods, and more; each playing a role in cycling nutrients and building soil structure. This is why tilling can set a soil back, it breaks fungal networks, collapses pore spaces, and disrupts the habitat these organisms live in, like tearing the roof off the neighborhood. What questions do you still have as we keep building this understanding?
1 like • 13d
@Jim Flach Got it, so what you are saying is better to find ways to respect the natural flow of the ecosystem of the soil, instead of overcompensating trying to fix something that doesn't need fixing, but rather a little bit of guidance? As far as weeds, because it sounds that some have a purpose for being a round. And some will be flushed out so to speak possibly by other plants, or natural things that eliminate them. How does a person know which ones are safe and arent? For example, Dandelions.
1 like • 13d
@Jim Flach I'd say both, because if there are some that have benefits during certain times of the year. Then I'd like to keep them there so they do what they are meant to do.
Does anyone use a pellet stove?
This unit is in the garage on the lower level. It keeps the garage warm and flows heat up the steps. 40F outside cost about $6 a day, when under 20 outside it counts about $10 a day.
Does anyone use a pellet stove?
1 like • 13d
I used to have one, when I lived in PA. I personally found it very convenient and it really does keep a room nice a warm.
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1️⃣ Post 4 GIFs in the same post that indicate: 1. Where are you from? 2. What's your favorite food? 3. What is your business? 4. What do you love to do? Respond back to at least 3 people guessing their answers. I'll pin the winner Sunday.
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@Jim Flach yes, it is. Most sensitives/empathetic people go into that field, especially with children. So, it definitely admirable of her. Has she always been someone who has always been helpful?
2 likes • 15d
@Jim Flach beautiful, because that is exactly the alignment needed for this kind of work. There are a lot of tough things we deal with, but at the same it will be the very thing. That will push her to continue wanting to help, and even make changes to the system. It really warms my heart that someone so young. Is interested in being essentially a steward for our youth. That warms my heart.
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A Counselor helping protectors bridge clinical strategy with inner peace. Move from overstimulation to sovereign command. No pressure. No performance.

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