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Which outerwear looks sharpest for cold weather? Pick ONE.
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Which outerwear looks sharpest for cold weather? Pick ONE.
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I'd say pea coat overall, but it depends on just how cold it is and what else you are wearing underneath. Is it going over a tuxedo, chinos and a knit sweater, jeans and flannel? Is it Los Angeles cold at 45F or Great Lakes cold at -20F? For versatility I'd say the Pea Coat followed by the Leather Jacket. The wool over coat is best in a formal capacity over suit and tie. The puffer jacket is highly functional though looks a bit out of place if not being worn shoveling snow, riding a ski lift or other activities where that functionality is key.
WINNER for the "Turning Point" Challenge 🥁🥁🥁
Gents - this challenge was a blast! We had so many transformation and turning-point stories shared, and every single one was inspiring in its own way. Seeing you guys show up, reflect, and take action is exactly what this community is about. Now… for the winner 🥁🥁🥁 🏆 WINNER: @Sean Kavanaugh Sean’s turning point started with years of feeling limited by his size — wearing looser clothes to hide, tailoring only for length, and cycling through “progress… then back to old habits.” Then life changed the trajectory. He stepped into a new chapter, started carrying himself differently, and eventually hit the real wake-up call: About 18 months ago, he woke up with his knees hurting and decided, “Enough is enough.” He committed to keto and consistent workouts — and that kickstarted not just weight loss, but a complete style evolution. What changed for Sean: - He’s down 75 pounds, with another 15–20 to go - Fit became the priority — not “whatever works,” but “what actually looks sharp” - He rebuilt his wardrobe intelligently (thrift + resale + tailoring) as his body changed - He leveled up so much that in December he bought an off-the-rack suit that only needed a hem — not a full reconstruction And the best part? He didn’t keep it to himself. He posts consistently, tracks his progress, and credits the community for helping him feel more confident in who he is — and where he’s going. @Sean Kavanaugh — we're proud of you! Everyone else: keep those stories coming in the community feed. This is how we build momentum — one decision, one upgrade, one win at a time!
WINNER for the "Turning Point" Challenge 🥁🥁🥁
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Congratulations Sean. You've earned it!
The "Turning Point" Challenge (CLOSED - Winner Announced)
Alright gents - we’re kicking off a fun challenge starting TODAY. We often talk about leveling up our style. But the truth is, no man decides to level up just because he bought a new suit. He buys the suit because he first decided he was done playing small. We all have a "Line in the Sand"—that specific moment where the old version of you no longer fit the man you wanted to become. Today, we’re kicking off a 3-day challenge to honor those stories. This isn't a "who looks best" contest. This is about the Turning Point. Whether it was a promotion that felt out of your league, a breakup that forced a reality check, or the day you became a father and realized you had to lead by example - we want to hear about the moment you stopped cutting corners. HOW TO JOIN (Super easy) Drop your story in the comments under this post. Use this quick format: 1. The old you (What did "average" look like for you then?) 2. The moment (What was the specific wake-up call?) 3. The shift (What was the very first change you made?) 4. The result (How are you showing up differently today?) Optional: Feel free to attach a "Before" photo to show the physical side of that internal shift. HOW THE CHALLENGE WORKS - Challenge will run for 3 days (starting today until Jan 19th) - Post your story in the comments of this post (not separate posts) - Our team will personally pick the winner at the end - Winner will be announced next week Monday Jan 19th - Winner gets a surprise gift from Antonio 🎁 WINNERS WILL BE PICKED BASED ON - Detail and quality of your comment (70%) - Thumbs up from others (5%) - Paid members will have plus points. RULES & LIMITATIONS - Must be Level 5 or higher to win - Free shipping (USA only; forwarding addresses accepted) The floor is yours. What was the moment you decided to level up? Let’s hear it below. 👇
The "Turning Point" Challenge (CLOSED - Winner Announced)
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Well my story isn't very dramatic or too spectacular; but here it is The old me- Until fairly recently I was jeans and t-shirt guy. I wore work boots or hiking boots for any occasion and thought I was being clever and practical buying cheap tube socks in bulk; this meant I didn't need to worry about matching pairs because I had dozens of identical socks so any 2 were a match. Of course this was during the week went I went to work and had to look presentable. On weekends it was cargo shorts, tank top, Hawaiian shirt and a pair of $9 slip on sneakers I got at Walmart. Aside from the Hawaiian shirts my wife never saw anything wrong with how I dressed. The moment - Almost exactly 3 years ago there was a death in the family and I needed to fly back home. It happened at a time when I was super busy with work and didn't really have the capacity to take time off for this trip. I was going to fly out Friday night and fly back Sunday morning, essentially a 30 hour round trip. But it was family and I had to go, also I had to wear a black suit which I didn't even own. I went to a Men's store where they took my measurements and told me the suit would be ready the Thursday before my flight. I spent the next few days searching the internet for how to cram a suit into a carry on bag without hurting it or causing it to look wrinkled. The short answer was: you don't. I ended up just wearing the suit for the entire trip and discovered something unexpected— it wasn't uncomfortable, itchy or overly restrictive. What's more is that the people I interacted with during that 30 hour period were all acting strangely, smiling and calling me "Sir". It was weird but not unpleasant. The shift - Admittedly this took about a year or so. Because I had been researching things like "Where to Buy a suit", "How to travel with a suit" and "How to tie a tie" the online algorithms started showing me more and more videos, articles and ads for Men's Fashion. It was a little uncomfortable at first, especially the "How Men over 50 should dress" videos but I eventually gave in and started looking at the things these videos and articles were saying. Which led me to watching several of Antonios videos which in turn led me to this community.
Statement Accessories That Elevate Style
I’ve been experimenting with adding one statement accessory to otherwise simple outfits a scarf, watch, or even bold shoes. It’s surprising how much a single piece can shift the vibe without needing a full wardrobe overhaul. Accessories feel like the easiest way to push comfort zones while keeping the foundation solid. What’s your go‑to statement accessory that always elevates your look?
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I have a small collection of flat caps that are quick, easy pieces that stand out. I also have some vests and waistcoats that can change the look dramatically. They can be be dressed up or down, be worn with or without a coat and are a great way to add a layer without additional warmth and bulk.
Last Year’s Wins 🎉 This Year’s Focus 🎯
Gents, before we move too far into 2026, I want you to pause and look back intentionally. 1️⃣ Last Year Wins What’s 1–3 wins from last year you’re proud of? Doesn’t have to be massive. Progress counts — consistency, discipline, better decisions. Style upgrade you stuck with? A fragrance you finally made your signature? A watch milestone, collection refinement, or learning moment? A habit you strengthened, a distraction you cut, or a standard you raised 2️⃣ This Year’s Focus What’s 1–2 goals you’re deliberately committing to this year - not wishing for, but committing to? Could be... Sharpening your personal style as a form of self-respect Building a tighter, more intentional fragrance rotation Becoming more educated, patient, and disciplined with watches Showing up with more consistency - physically, mentally, and professionally Raising your standards in how you present yourself to the world Drop your wins and your focus below. Let’s build on what worked. And cut what didn’t!
Last Year’s Wins 🎉 This Year’s Focus 🎯
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Well style-wise my big win last year was finding this community and actually learning about style. It all came to fruition at the end of the year when one co-worker made a comment about how nice I was dressed and another responded "Yeah, that's just how Steve dresses" which was quite the compliment considering I was still wearing jeans and t-shirt to work last Spring. Then a few weeks ago my wife was getting ready for work and asked for my advice. She has been slowly moving away from jeans or leggings and a t-shirt to dress a bit more business casual saying that she's taking a page from my book in dressing better. And was then further impressed at my observations of not just color combination but texture, shape and fit. Outside of style I started a routine with my dog where we wake up early Sunday morning and drive up to the mountains to hike in the woods. We started with 2 mile hikes and worked up to 3 miles. This past weekend we went 6 miles. The State Park has 35 miles of hiking trails and my goal is to thoroughly explore and find the best for weekend hikes.
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Just Gen X guy minding my own business when all of a sudden 1995 was 30 years ago.

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