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Every Journey Starts Somewhere
We don't realize how far we've come until we look at where we started. The other day I stopped at the grocery store to pick up a few items. Standing in the checkout line, I noticed a guy coming into the store about my height and age. My first impression (and I'm not proud of it) was to wonder if he'd checked the mirror before leaving home. He wore Crocs with black socks, rumpled cargo shorts, a t-shirt that used to be white but had yellowed with age and sprouted a few extra holes at the collar. Over all of this, a baggy green hoodie and a visor cap with his salt and pepper hair poking out the top in unkempt spikes. The thought "I wouldn't leave the house looking like that" had barely finished forming when it was stopped dead in its tracks— up until a few years ago I used to leave the house almost exactly like that. All the time. In fact, I'm pretty sure I still have that exact hoodie somewhere at home! It was a humbling moment. I didn't feel superior. I felt grateful. It reminded me of something important: everyone is on their own journey. The guy who just bought his first tie deserves the same respect as the guy who's been pressing pocket squares for twenty years. We don't know where someone is in their story, and we don't know what got them there. I left the store not with judgment, but with gratitude. Gratitude for the version of me that didn't know any better, and fuel for the version of me I'm still becoming.
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@Robert Woodhouse Congratulations. 70 pounds take a certain level of commitment that most people don't have.
I'm Guilty, Are You?
Alright, confession time. I recently found myself back in the RMRS classroom, taking another look at the 'Skincare Basics for Men.' https://www.skool.com/rmrs/classroom/3a795210?md=f6ecd34f85c7483ba96a5b8be4225642 Let's be honest, this topic isn't nearly as sexy as a new watch review or the latest fragrance release. However, I have to admit, it's my most neglected area, a fact that becomes glaringly obvious when you're an older, more... distinguished gentleman. Now for the serious bit. Once you hit 50, your skin starts playing by a new set of rules. The collagen that kept everything looking firm and youthful begins to decrease, leading to wrinkles and sagging. Your skin thins out, loses its natural plumpness, and can become uncomfortably dry and itchy. To top it all off, the sun damage you've been racking up over the years decides to make a grand entrance in the form of age spots. I'm eager to get some fresh perspective on this, which is why I'm particularly looking forward to our upcoming webinar with Eric of Beardbrand on February 17th for his insights on skincare. So, after reviewing the RMRS class, what's the one skincare step you're most guilty of skipping?
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For me it's sun screen, but that's a bit purposeful. I grew up in Southern California and that often meant going to the beach, which I hated. There was never anything specific I could point to as a reason, it just always felt horrible everytime my family went to the beach. As a child I used to say that the ocean made me sea sick but my parents insisted that sea sickness happens on a boat and not on a beach. So I avoided the beach as much as I could until a group of friends wound up there in high-school and I was fine, like I had outgrown whatever it was that caused the issue. However the follow-up trip to the beach I was feeling queezy and had a terrible headache again. However I did notice something was different, sunscreen. As a kid my Mom covered me in sunscreen and within 20-30 minutes (the time it took to drive to the beach) I started feeling sick. However I didn't use sunscreen to hang out with friends and just sort of wound up at the beach. I tested the theory by putting on sunscreen and sitting on the couch playing Nintendo, and sure enough within that first half hour I was feeling ill. I don't know what the active ingredient is in sunscreen that causes this and I'm sure there are others who have similar issues and that special sunscreens exist. However I just leave sunscreen to others.
14th century Man-at-Arms
Going a bit further back than what is typical for this server. Just bought a kettle-helmet and gauntlets second hand today. The rest of the kit is a riveted mail halburk, riveted mail coif, padded gambeson, padded arming cap. Went to pay rent to my landlords and left with a new cast iron pan. Huzzah! Pics by my landlords!
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Dress for the job you want!
What image do you want to project with your style?
I have always felt that as humana we are quite multifaceted, we have so much identities we could show to others. So I wanted to ask you, do you like to project just one aspect of your personality? Or how do you manage to project your whole personality in an outfit? Thank you for reading and for your answers in advance đź«¶
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I actually spent a bit of time thinking about this; who am I, who do I want to be. And how do I show the world the version of myself that I feel on the inside. After a long journey of self reflection I decided on something that says I'm capable and confident, but also refined and put-together. A style I call Rugged Gentleman; it's sophisticated without being stuffy, and practical without being sloppy. An aesthetic that is the perfect intersection of refined sophistication and practical outdoor capability. It's about looking like someone who could equally handle a business meeting or build something with their hands; and do both with confidence and style. Core Philosophy: Smart casual outfits with a tough, outdoors working man edge Quality over quantity - well-made pieces that age beautifully Functional yet refined - everything serves a purpose while looking intentional Masculine without being aggressive - confident and capable Key Elements: Fabrics: Natural materials like wool, cotton, linen, canvas, and leather 9Colors: Earth tones (browns, greens, greys), navy, black, with strategic pops of color Fit: Tailored but not tight - allows for movement and comfort The Vibe: Think MadMen meets outdoor adventurer - someone who could go fishing, attend a business casual meeting, or grab drinks after a conference, all while looking appropriately dressed and authentically themselves. It's sophisticated enough for professional settings but rugged enough to never look out of place in practical situations.
Question: Why not have just one fragrance?
Hello everyone, welcome to my first post in this community. First of all, I am very grateful for the opportunity to be here and learn from all of you. I ask this because I've noticed that many of you have collections (impressive ones, by the way) of several bottles, so that's where my question comes in: why do you have several and not just one? Like, what is the motivation behind your colections? I hope to learn and read from you all. Thank you.
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@VĂ­ctor Mendoza That's the general idea. I've been going for woody earth scents during the winter; such as oud, sweet tobacco, sandlewood, ect. Now that its spring I'm transitioning to fresher, clean scents like bergamot, vetiver, sage. Then of those selections I will pick the more subtle scents for work and the stronger scents for weekend or going out for drinks. I don't have an exact scent for each season and occasion but I'm narrowing it down. Im also playing with the idea that a winter work scent could also be a spring or fall weekend scent.
1 like • Mar 2
@VĂ­ctor Mendoza Yeah, thats kind of the vibe I've been going for. Basically I associated winter to cold weather and campfires so heavier wooden scents. Then spring and summer is fresh growth, but instead of flowers I went fruits and herbs.
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Just a Gen X guy minding my own business when all of a sudden 1995 was over 30 years ago.

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