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🏳️🌈The "ME" Project🏳️🌈
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Mar 11 •
Welcome! Introduce yourself 🎉
Welcome to the #1 Community for gay men focused on real connection, personal growth, and raising standards in health, dating, and life. Remember, this journey is about progress, not perfection. Show up each day with kindness, curiosity, and a willingness to post or ask anything you’d like to do. We can all support each other along the way. Step 1: Download the Skool app to make your experience easier: Get the iOS app here. Get the Android app here. And turn on your notifications! Step 2: Introduce yourself: Where are you from and what do you like to do for fun? ☺️ ALSO: This Group Is For All Of Us! Please feel free to ask questions, share wins, tell stories, vent a little, or post whatever’s on your mind. Just pick a category below and jump in. Don’t wait for me to be the only one starting the good conversations. This group gets better when all of us bring something to the table. You never know — your post might help someone else, spark a great conversation, or make another guy feel a little less alone. This is a judgment-free zone. Bring honesty, curiosity, and good energy. If someone shows up rude, weird, or disrespectful… I’ll take care of it 😎
1 like • 14d
Hi, I am Scott from Taiwan, 36 years old (about to get to 37 next month!). I found this group when I was browsing the thread app today, and I think the concept of this group is something I haven’t had before, so give it a try. I have been in a relationship for 2 years but am still struggling with it. (Anxious attachment VS Avoidant attachment issue lol) I think I am in the stage that I want to explore more possibilities about my life and future, so I am trying to leave a digital nomad lifestyle starting from this month. I love travel and understand local culture, food, architecture, and how people live in these different places. I guess the loneliness might also be part of the reason for that as I found myself feeling more authentic and willing to try new things when I am abroad or talking in English instead of Mandarin (I do feel a personality change when I am communicating in a different language, and I think it’s very cool😎) I find myself liking to know people through genuine deep talk, but it’s something difficult to find in the gay social scene nowadays. So I am grateful to find the group and looking forward to hearing more stories from you guys.
0 likes • 5d
@Dann Van Beek It’s great to have you here! I’ve always had wanderlust, maybe we can exchange some ideas about that in the future. I am also trying to do bodybuilding too. Hope to make it become a habit for myself soon:)
6d •
Coffee Hour Recording (05/04)
Topic: - belonging, how to find our people - Create what you’re looking for - Finding a place to live where we feel a sense of belonging - Future topic ideas
1 like • 6d
Hi everyone, I really love the coffee hour topics that @Frederik Schaaf has been organizing. It’s just a pity that because of my work schedule and time zone, I haven’t had a chance to join any of them so far. I’m currently planning to spend some time living in Europe, so I’m hoping the timing will work better for me then :)
29d •
Monogamy vs Ethical non Monogamy
What do you believe in? I would like to hear your theory and why it works out for you ☺️
1 like • 14d
Oh! It’s one of the topics that I’ve always been fascinated by. If I just start a new relationship with someone, I would feel a stronger need of “having him” in my life and feel jealous about the idea of sharing my love with someone. But I also agree it’s unrealistic to be in a relationship till the end of life without having any chance to have special feelings besides the original partner. So I think for me the non-monogamy would be something more likely to happen after being together for a while. Maybe a few months or a few years, until both of us feel comfortable and confident enough that our relationship is strong enough to take the risk of having a 3rd person join us. It can be sexual only or even including more besides that. Some parts of me are also fascinated by the idea of “cuckold”, which means I would feel pleasure when I saw my partner enjoying sex with others while I am also being part of the sexual activity. It makes me feel like I am more than capable to make my partner feel happy without needing him to feel guilty or ashamed about the desire to have some fun with others. Looking forward to having more discussions about this topic. 😊
2 likes • 13d
@Dylan Sean I am resonating with your idea of “Love had forms, textures, expressions.” When I first felt attracted to someone while I was still in a relationship, those moral values and traditional beliefs of love came up and caught my breath immediately. I felt guilty and ashamed about the idea of having strong feelings for others; it felt like I had broken some sort of social contract that everyone praised. And yet the sensation was so strong, strong enough to make you feel inescapable and needed to face it directly. It takes me lots of effort to understand the feelings, and it happens after I stop criticizing myself for having feelings for others. This critique is like a barrier to stop me from facing the naturalness of the feeling itself. (So I am grateful that @Frederik Schaaf created this community for us to share and discuss those experiences without being judged.) At that moment, I realized the idea about “Love had forms, textures, expressions.” There are no two loves I have felt and given identical; they’re all love but in different forms.
15d •
What’s your superpower?
We gay men are here for a reason, what would you say is your superpower? ☺️
4 likes • 14d
My superpowers are: Being sensitive to the atmosphere change when engaging with people and having strong empathy.🥹 Very good at trip planning, calculating the best offers when shopping.😆
20d •
Feeling uncomfortable before even leaving home
Next month I have to go to Dubai , and my husband wants to come to but we both are feeling a bit weird … do we need 2 rooms ? How to behave …. Just having to think about it revives so much of the homophobia of both our childhoods his in Paris and mine in London . Any info or ideas would be greatly appreciated ❤️
1 like • 14d
I have been to Dubai 5 years ago. Although I travel with my family in that trip, I found the atmosphere there are quite open. (at least for straight tourist lol) The most of the service in Dubai are provide by foreign labor, including hotel staffs. From my perspective it makes the hotel might the least part you need to worried about. But I will still recommend to keep low profile especially for anything related to gay culture, safety is always the first priority when I travel abroad.
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@scott-cheng-8529
Taiwanese, Open minded, Kind and warm. Enjoy genuine talk and meaningful conversation.
Active 2d ago
Joined Apr 26, 2026