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Overnight flight advice needed…
I have a long haul flight coming up (16+hrs) and I need some help with what to wear. I like to stay smart-casual or better on flights, but I also need to be able to sleep comfortably. Any brands or clothing that you would recommend to accomplish this task?
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Now thats some solid, usable advice for all.
OOTD
Mixing new (to me) and old today. New: Brooks Brothers button down shirt, Tom James trousers Old: Allen Edmonds Park Avenues and Jones New York suit jacket I bought in the late 90s. The weather here is gray today, so I'll be accompanied by my gray hat, also from the 90s.
OOTD
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Beautifully matches outfit. I'm a hat lover so loving the look.
Seeking advice: Which style projects authority - Classic Gentleman, Military Minimalist, or Bold Leader?
Hey everyone, I need some advice on developing a more authoritative appearance now that I've joined the management of the building I live in. Currently, I'm just known as the tech guy with dogs who wears faded black Fruit of the Loom t-shirts and black jogging pants - not exactly commanding respect. Following earlier advice from this community, I've started building a countryside look with a Barbour shirt that I plan to pair with military Bundeswehr pants, a vest, and Lowa GTX Renegade Mid boots. I'll definitely share photos once everything arrives. Here's where I need your input: I'm trying to understand what truly creates an authoritative presence in daily situations. I've been considering three different style archetypes. First, there's the classic English countryside gentleman - trustworthy and refined. Second, there's the Gabriel character from Mission Impossible with his minimalist military aesthetic - few colors but strong contrasts, projecting a silent show of force. Third, there's Negan from The Walking Dead, whose authority comes from bold, slightly unhinged charisma. Each represents a different approach to authority: the nice guy everyone trusts, the silent strength, and the loud commanding presence. I'm looking for real-world advice on what actually works when you need to be taken seriously without appearing like someone who can't say no or gets pushed around. What style have you found most effective for establishing respect in a building management position?
Seeking advice: Which style projects authority - Classic Gentleman, Military Minimalist, or Bold Leader?
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Well with this one I would definitely study my opposition closely. Get to know them and why they think the way they do. Dressing to gentlemanly may push them away as they will see you as sort of a push over. However your 2nd choice may make them think you are unapproachable to a point. Definitely do not go with your 3rd choice as it will seem as if you are the bully type and may end up with the thought that they need to be ready to fight each time you are approached. I would say to mix it up and not pick just one style, depending on your situation of the day. But in the end, the silent one in the room who takes the time to listen and thinks before he speaks will always have the upper hand. Regardless of your outfit, your well thought out words will set the tone.
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Now knowing more about this issue I would definitely say to go with a sharp business look. Clean cut, well groomed. Showing a definitive air of confidence. Start implementing changes that show improvements that everyone, regardless of what side of the coin they may be on, will ultimately benefit from. It doesn't have to be a grand gesture but definitely something that everyone needs. That gesture along with a well polished business look will show you are serious about your move to management. As those of us learned in the United States Marine Corp., always dress sharp, stand tall, and carry an air of confidence to the point of cockiness.
Daily Motivation
"You need to be aware of what others are doing., applaud their efforts, acknowledge their successes, and encourage them in their pursuits. When we all help one another, everybody wins." Jim Stovall Have a great day brothers. When we help each other, we help ourselves as well. Keep the faith.
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Nicely said. One worldwide brotherhood. Such an amazing concept.
Sunday Service
Church this morning with the kids and two of the grandkids. Breakfast shortly after with The Knights of Columbus. What a blessed morning.
Sunday Service
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@Jeffrey Plotka Thank you. God is great.
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@John C Thank you.
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