What does "forgiveness" mean to you?
Drew has talked about forgiveness in the past two sessions. While I was breathing and moving mindfully for today's session I thought about what forgiveness means to me. I've dealt with a few toxic people in my life who caused me some degree of anguish...at one time I believed that it was unreasonable for me to forgive such people. I equated forgiving with forgetting....forget the hurt and hanger as if it had never happened, and love these people, and thank them for teaching me valuable lessons, etc.....no. Forgiveness doesn't mean disregarding your own feelings in that way...it means letting go of the pain and anger and especially the desire for revenge. It means acknowledging the wrong that was done to you without allowing it to poison your mind and heart and rob you of your joy. It means acknowledging that the people whom you perceive to have caused you pain are only human, just like yourself...and aren't you, yourself, worthy of forgiveness? We are all imperfect humans in an imperfect world, doing the best we can. Each of us deserves to be forgiven, and to forgive, especially ourselves. 😻