Week 1 â January 7th A Real Place to Begin
January 1st gets a lot of attention. But for many of us, today feels like the real beginning of the year. The holidays are over. Kids are back at school. Work has started again. Life is moving. January 1st isnât a magical day. I know that from experience. I tried more than once to quit drinking on January 1st. New year, fresh start, big intentions. The change that actually stuck didnât happen on a meaningful date. It happened months later, on an ordinary day, when I was finally able to be honest with myself. Nothing special about the date. No new-year energy. No big declaration. Just a quiet moment where I decided to start showing up differently. So if January 1st felt meaningful to you, thatâs great. It can be a good starting place. But if the year only really begins for you now, thatâs just as valid. Because itâs not the date that creates change. Itâs what you do, consistently, after today. This weekâs focus: Change doesnât come from big promises It comes from small actions repeated over time. We tend to think we need a full plan. A perfect routine. A complete overhaul. But real change usually starts much smaller than that. It starts with identity. With asking not âWhat should I do?â but âWho do I want to be?â And then choosing one small action that supports that identity. A few things to focus on this week: Forget changing everything. Choose one small thing you can do daily. Ask yourself: What actually matters to me right now? Let go of what you think you âshouldâ want. Move your body in a way that feels supportive, not punishing. Focus on showing up, not getting it right. You donât need intensity. You need consistency. Tiny actions, done daily, shape who you become. Something to reflect on. If January 1st came and went without everything changing, thatâs okay. What matters is this: What is one small action youâre willing to repeat, even when motivation fades? Start there. Thatâs where real change begins.