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Perfection, or Action Leading to Results?
This morning I listened to CDNA 4.1; my two biggest takeaways were 1) Be intentional with what I listen to/read/watch, and 2) Take action and I will get results. Recently I was challenged by a Truth (I don’t recall who said it): sometimes it is better to move ahead with something less-than-perfect, rather than get hung up trying to perfect my outcome before moving on. Example: I can spend all day perfecting a marketing video for social media, or I can crank out 5 videos that are a little less than perfect. In today’s world of AI, there are instances where some imperfections are actually good - it indicates a real human creator rather than an AI machine. One more thing I’ve been considering for a while: does the 80/20 rule apply to effort/perfection? The idea is that 20% of the total effort is expended to achieve 80% perfection, and the other 80% of the effort goes into achieving the last 20% of perfection. If you have any thoughts on this, I would love to hear them! Y’all have a great day!
Perfection, or Action Leading to Results?
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So good, Love! šŸ”„ Love you! 😘
Re-Introduction
I used to be a part of this group but haven’t been for quite some time now. I have decided to come back and access the nuggets I know are here. Here is my new introduction as I’m in a different part of life than I was last time ā˜ŗļø I am from TN. We moved here in Oct of 2025 so we’re still new to the area. I have a 5 year old daughter. Shes fun and loves to learn. She’s full of energy and recently started gymnastics classes which she is extremely excited for. I’m excited to see her learn and grow with it. I am in a transitional part of my life as I am building my life and career without my husband now. Unfortunately our marriage didn’t survive. I am working on finding myself now as my own person and building a life for me and my daughter. I’m stoked to be a part of this community and create EPIC for our future!
Re-Introduction
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Love you, Sylvia! 🄰 I’m so glad to see you here, and I’m excited for your next chapter in life, discovering new levels of freedom and growth! šŸ¤—
LION DRASH COMMUNICATION
Today we pushed play on the Connection DNA content in our Round #24. We're in Week 7 – Session 3 with the Weekly Theme of: Perfection = Improvement on the topic of the Strength Cycles of the 4 Faces – Lion Communication specifically My Takeaways were that Lion Communication is connected to the book of Mark and to Messiah. It aligns with what is referred to as Drash teaching which is a Hebrew term. It draws truth out through stories, parables, and lived experiences rather than direct instruction. It’s the kind of communication that doesn’t rush to fix, but patiently invites discovery. Think of moments when someone didn’t tell you what to do, but asked a question that stayed with you. One that made you pause, reflect, and see something differently. That’s Lion Communication at work. This style of communication is not about having the right answer ready, but about awakening insight. Lion Communication asks questions that lead others to their own realization rather than forcing conclusions. It invites ownership instead of compliance, conviction instead of agreement. Yeshua modeled Lion Communication masterfully. When He asked, ā€œWho do you say that I am?ā€ Obviously He wasn’t testing knowledge. He was creating space for truth to surface through engagement and response. He trusted that revelation would come through participation, not just telling them the answer and what to think or believe. Abraham Lincoln is another historical example of this same strength. Rather than dominating with authority, he used storytelling, metaphors, and thoughtful questioning to move people toward deeper understanding. His words carried weight because they invited reflection, not because they demanded agreement. Lion Communication leads with courage, presence, and purpose. It doesn’t rush the other person, but challenges them to rise by helping them see for themselves. It trusts that truth, once seen, carries its own power. My commitment is to practice the Drash Lion Communication by slowing down and asking thoughtful, open-ended questions instead of defaulting to advice. I will use story, curiosity, and reflection to help the other person discover truth on their own rather than telling them what to think. I will choose presence over persuasion and trust the process of discovery to do its work.
LION DRASH COMMUNICATION
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Thank you for sharing, Jesse! Your description of Lion communication gives me a picture of releasing control of the outcome. Sometimes, depending on the situation, I have felt the need to keep pushing my thoughts and encouragement onto someone until I feel satisfied that they have made a decision. It is much more empowering to the other person when I simply present a few intentional thoughts or questions and then release them to arrive at their own conclusion. When I am at the receiving end of this and someone uses Lion communication for me, I also feel that I am trusted to think for myself, and that is more empowering than any advice someone can give me.
Mawage
IYKYKšŸ˜‚ Let’s be real… marriage is not for the weak. It’s not the highlight reel you see on social. It’s the grit — the 2 a.m. arguments, the silent drives, the moments you question if you’re even speaking the same language. It’s learning to love someone while they’re still learning themselves. It’s growing side-by-side while life keeps throwing curveballs. It’s swallowing pride when you’d rather be right. It’s showing up again after words got messy and feelings got loud. Nobody tells you that real love will expose you — your control issues, your defensiveness, your need to be seen, your triggers from childhood. But it will also heal you — if you let it. The couples that last aren’t the ones who never fight. They’re the ones who fight for each other, not against each other. Who keep learning how to communicate. Who choose curiosity over criticism. Who keep showing up when it would be easier to shut down. The truth? Marriage will test everything you thought you knew about love… and then rebuild it into something stronger, deeper, more human. It’s not picture-perfect. It’s our sacred ground. And if we lean in — the nitty gritty becomes the good stuff. šŸ¤ #MarriageIsWork #TheGritAndTheGlue #RealLoveStories #EpicYourLife #Marriage #Mindset #Intentionality
Mawage
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I love that movie! šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ And I love everything you said. 🄰
Fear
It’s subtle. It doesn’t always show up as panic or chaos — sometimes it looks like staying busy, staying safe, or staying small. Fear hides in logic. It masks itself as ā€œI’m just being careful.ā€ But underneath? It’s still control… dressed up as responsibility. When fear takes over, the body slips into survival mode. Your nervous system can’t tell the difference between real danger and emotional discomfort. Cortisol floods your system, the brain narrows its focus, and the part designed for clarity, creativity, and connection goes dim. That’s why when fear is running the show, everything feels off — your thinking gets foggy, your confidence drops, your peace disappears. You overanalyze, replay, assume, and protect — because fear convinces you safety lives in control. But here’s the truth: What you focus on, you feed. And the more you feed fear, the smaller your world becomes. You don’t get free from fear by thinking your way out — you have to move your way through it. Breathing deeper. Grounding in truth. Choosing one calm, courageous step at a time. That’s where safety returns — not from control, but from trust in your own ability to handle what comes. Because courage isn’t the absence of fear — it’s proof that fear no longer gets to decide. šŸ¤ #CourageInMotion #RegulateAndRise #EpicYourLife #MindsetReset #Fear #Courage #mindset #Choice #Decision #ForwardMotion
Fear
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Yes! šŸ™ŒšŸ¼ I used to think something was wrong with me when I felt a lot of fear, and I would go deep into that identity and spiral into despair. Freedom came when I learned that fear doesn’t get to make my choices for me. (Like you said, ā€œFear no longer gets to decide.ā€) I alone make my decisions, and it is absolutely okay to stand in the face of fear (feel and see the fear) AND make my own decisions.
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