Golden Nugget Friday ☀️ Overthinking feels productive… but most of the time, it just keeps you stuck. A lot of men think they need more time before they send the text, approach the woman, ask her out, or make a move. But usually, it is not because they need a better plan. It is because they are scared of getting it wrong. And that is the trap. Because the longer you sit there replaying every possible outcome, the more pressure you create in your own head. Now something simple starts feeling way bigger than it actually is. Overthinking does not build confidence. ACTION DOES Confidence comes from doing the thing, seeing that you survived it, and realizing you can handle more than you thought. So here is your reminder for today: You do not need to feel 100% ready. You need to be willing to take one step. Send the text.Start the conversation. Ask the question.Make the plan. Stop letting overthinking talk you out of the very thing you say you want. What is one thing you have been overthinking lately when it comes to dating? And also, what is one small action you want to take?

I have a story I like to share with all of you. Around this time last year, I was going through a healing of toxic friendships that were in my life and was just trying to heal from that and my dating life was put on pause. But then one day while I was scrolling through my IG I saw Shelley’s Ad and I thought she seems cool to talk to about my dating life so we had an introduction session and we spoke for a long time and she gave me a sense of safety that I could open up about my past dating life without feeling embarrassed. Ever since then I have supported her and follow her dating tips on IG. One thing I did throughout last year, every week when she had a live on IG about answering dating questions I would always submit my dating questions and out of the maybe hundreds of followers that she had that maybe also submitted a dating question for a good period of time, my dating question would always get picked to be answer! (Yes, I did always notice you doing that Shelley and I appreciate it) And then one day out of the blue, she asks me to join this new community chat she thought I be perfect for and I did and here we are! Shelley, you are the reason we are all here able to be part of this amazing support dating community and for that I will always truly be grateful for. You’re also a very lovely, kind, beautiful, funny, genuine and the real definition of the word AUTHENTIC! We are all here because of you and I thank you for supporting men in their dating lives and for making a difference in making them happy to be with their special someone. Thank you personally for supporting me in my dating live in the way you have for this past year and for your kindness and positivity. I just wanted to say to you Happy Birthday @Shelley Badayos! You deserve all the happiness in the world and I hope you have an Amazing day with you family and friends and that you’re treated to a very nice dinner tonight because you deserve that and so much more! You mean so much to your clients, to everyone in this chat and especially to me for giving me hope in my dating life too. Happy Birthday Shelley and always remember…you are the light at the end of your tunnel! P.S. Smile Today! 🎂 🎆 🎇 🎊 🎁 🎉🥳😃

Time to share some of you wins down below!!!

Time to answer some of your dating q's! Comment them down below 👇

Happy Thursday! Missed Win Wednesday so we are moving it this week to today!! What wins are you celebrating? Comment down below 👇