Coaching call 27th of Aug
In this week’s coaching call we talked about RESISTANCE. The other day, I felt huge resistance to something as simple as taking a walk without my phone. My mind instantly reminded me of thousands of “more productive” things I could do that “need to get done”. But I decided to go anyway. A 45-minute walk in the woods along the water, no phone, no one to talk to. And guess what happened? That resistance soon faded — and through came some of the clearest, most valuable revelations I’ve had in weeks. I even took a detour to make the walk (& revelations) last even longer 😅 In Wednesday’s meditation, we visualised something we have a strong resistance to doing - although we know that it would do us good. Like the phone-free walk. That sparked a conversation about how modern society conditions us to constantly chase dopamine — with instant gratification always at our fingertips through phones, social media, and endless digital stimulation. (more on this on day 27 of R2T) - But the high we get from these dopamine spikes is short-lived. - Dopamine is tied to your brain’s reward system and quickly adapts to repeated exposure, so we end up needing stronger or more frequent stimulation to feel the same reward — leaving us DESENSITISED, DISTRACTED & often DEPLETED. In the same way that excess caffeine can also make us more tired (there’s a goldilocks zone - as with your exercise, see day 25). Another 2 key takeaways from the discussion: 1) We often experience resistance purely because humans HATE CHANGE. It goes against our survival mechanism. The status quo = safe & secure for your nervous system - although it’s often the opposite in reality, but your nervous system isn’t always rational.. So your brain is an EXPERT at making up reasons why you should stay the same - especially if the people in your environment don’t have a “growth mindset” - they will do everything in THEIR power to hinder you from changing. See day 6 on the importance of choosing your tribe, especially when committing to change in your life.