And if you donât yet⌠you soon-ish will. Letâs crack it together. First up, Iâve been talking about this for yonks (hmmm, that's maybe a Brit saying-thinking out loud), and it came up again in a conversation with a juicy convo with @Ăva Raposa (yes, she always brings those, keepin it real kinda chats), thanks for sparking back this spark btw⌠Anyways...It totes reminded me how many of us are carrying this quietly, especially if weâve been in lots of different communities over time. Ok, full transparency because LOL at pretending otherwise⌠So, I was literally sat here thinking what the frick should I post in this group and how could it actually be useful or supportive to someone, instead of just posting for the sake of posting, pffft And then I realised⌠DUH⌠this is one of the conversations I have ALL. THE. TIME. People telling me they donât know what to write. Donât know what to post. Feel like theyâve got nothing to say. Feel like nobody actually cares anyway. And honestly, if youâve ever thought any of that, youâre not broken, youâre not behind, and youâre DEFINITELY not alone. A lot of this comes from what I call POSTAPHOBIA!!!! 𫨠Yep, itâs a (mimi-fied) thing + yup, I have it too. It usually comes from being in loads of different spaces, all with different vibes, different rules, different expectations. Maybe youâve had posts deleted before. Maybe youâve been told âthis isnât relevant hereâ. Maybe you shared something once and it landed weird. All of that stuff gets stored in your body and suddenly posting feels⌠risky AF. Uncomfortable. Like you might do it âwrongâ= internal eeeeekkk, gulp... So instead of doing something, you freeze. Overthink. Then balls to it, you do NAFF ALL, NADA, NOT A TOFU SAUSAGE. And hereâs the bit I really want you to hear. We are ALL here - in SKOOL, in communities, in groups - because we have something to share. We didnât accidentally end up here. We might be at totally different stages, with different-sized communities, different confidence levels, different energy⌠but weâre all here because we care about building something. A community. An idea. An impact. A business.