Day 3: Joy in Culture, Courage, Leadership, and Everyday Life

Rachel Bents

9d • Joy Forum Day 3

What a powerful way to close out the Joy-Led Leadership Forum.

Day 3 reminded us that joy-led leadership is not just a workplace strategy.

It is a way of seeing people.

A way of leading through pressure.

A way of building trust.

A way of returning to ourselves.

A way of creating connection when the world feels divided, loud, and uncertain.

@Nicole Matusinec

opened the day by helping us look at leadership through the lens of culture. She reminded us that culture is learned, shared, dynamic, symbolic, and systemic, and that every leader brings assumptions, patterns, and lived experience into the room. Her invitation was clear: stay humble, stay curious, ask better questions, and remember that every micro moment matters.

Jackie Payne then brought us into a powerful conversation about civic courage, loneliness, democracy, and connection. She reminded us that joy can be resistance, that belonging builds confidence, and that leadership requires us to respond, not react. Her work with Galvanize showed us what happens when joy, data, neuroscience, and deep listening come together to create real change.

@Sheryl Whitaker

gave us a soul-level leadership reset. Through her story of “Janet,” she named the real cost of fear-based leadership and reminded us that joy is not happiness, fluff, or a reward. Joy is the original operating system. Her “Joy Aware” practice invited us to look at our calendars and ask: What fills me up? What drains me? What leaves me neutral? That one exercise alone could change the way we lead.

And then

@Erin Martinson

@Karen Trewin

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@Jean Quam

brought us home with a beautiful panel on joy as a whole-life practice. They talked about grief, gratitude, curiosity, connection, ice cream, breathing, friendship, caregiving, cancer, and the very human work of finding joy when life is not easy. They reminded us that joy and grief are not opposites. They are woven together. And that connection is not optional if we want to live and lead with joy.

The thread of Day 3 was this:

Joy-led leadership is not about pretending life is easy.

It is about choosing humanity.

Choosing curiosity.

Choosing connection.

Choosing presence.

Choosing to lead differently, even in the middle of hard things.

And a quick reminder: Day 1 replays have been moved into the All Access page. The replays for Days 2&3 will be available for 48 hours respectively.

Thank you for being part of this conversation.

This was never just a forum.

It was the beginning of a different way to lead.

Joy is the strategy. Use it.