That question can feel impossible to answer when the reaction happens before we’ve even had time to think. Someone questions a decision and suddenly we’re three sentences into explaining why we made it. A team member sends a short reply and our fingers are already typing a much longer one to make sure they understand exactly what we meant. Someone disagrees with an idea we were excited about and we can feel ourselves pulling back from it before we’ve even decided whether their opinion matters. A conversation takes an unexpected turn and suddenly we’re defending something nobody actually asked us to defend. Then, five minutes later… Why did that bother me so much? Why did I feel like I had to explain myself? Why do I keep reacting this way? Those are interesting questions because a reaction isn’t an identity. The ways we learned to respond to life can follow us into our relationships, leadership and businesses without changing who God created us to be. So maybe the first step toward responding differently isn’t trying harder to control ourselves the next time it happens. Maybe it’s noticing the moment our reaction became bigger than the moment in front of us and getting curious about what just surfaced. That reaction can give us information. Something got touched. Something worth paying attention to. Something we can bring to Holy Spirit and ask what He wants us to see there, rather than allowing that reaction to tell us who we are. That distinction has become incredibly important to me: What happened along the way can affect how we respond without changing who God created us to be. If this was a reminder you needed today, leave a ❤️ below.