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🥃 The Society’s Sunday Experience 🥃
Fellow members, Today's meeting has been an absolute success with 7 members appearing at the meeting for at least 90 minutes. We enjoyed the whole event, it was full of laughs. We successfully tested for the first time the recording tool within the call so I made a short recording to share it with you while Nicholas was telling us his "Big Trouble in China" live experiences. I’ve also tested a tool (within the skool app as seeing in the video) that lets you change your background. In the future, I will record every call I'm part of to later upload it in a dedicated space within the Society for every member willing to get an update on what was discussed or what made us laugh. Here's the video recording and a couple of pictures. Enjoy the rest of your weekend! Thank you for your attention to this matter.
🥃  The Society’s Sunday Experience 🥃
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Begin Here: The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen
The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen, the O.G.’s of Gentlemanly Behavior, was created to provide a haven where gentlemen and ladies can communicate with each other in a polite and courteous setting. While many discussions will center around genteel behavior, humor, fashion, food, mental and physical well-being, and the active mentoring of a new generation of gentlemen, no topic of discussion is off limits provided the discussion is conducted within the Code of Conduct of the Society. The Society of Ordinary Gents is not a platform for recruiting members into sub-groups, special membership groups, or educational or financial opportunities. Poachers, Charlatans, or Internet Self-Help Gurus will be banned. The Society is not going to teach you how to be James Bond, John Wick, or the secret methods to make women want you. The Society is not a for-profit group or business. Essentially, The Society of Ordinary Gents is the online equivalent of friends enjoying a cigar, a bourbon and the company of others, as we discuss meaningful and trivial matters sitting in comfortable chairs. Membership: - Must Be a Legal Adult - Name, Age Range, Occupation/Status, General Location on Profile is Recommended - Hobbies and Interest on Profile is Recommended - An Alias is Acceptable for Privacy. - Introductory Posts are Required within 72 hours. A Gentleman or Lady Introduces Themselves Code of Conduct: - Must Be Courteous, Professional, Honorable - No Derogatory Comments Towards Members - Lively Debate is Welcome, Personal Attacks Will Not Be Tolerated - No Gratuitous Profanity or Sexually Explicit Content - Must Have a Sense of Humor - Being Offended is Up to the Reader - Lurkers, Looky-Loos and Inactive (30+ days) Members May Be Removed. - Failure to write an Introductory Post will result in removal, with the option to reapply. No Solicitation: - The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen Does Not Sell, or Tolerate the Selling of Products, Services or Ideas for Commercial Purposes.
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🕯 Yuletide & Festive Loneliness 🥂
Gentlemen, Dames As the tinsel goes up, so too — one observes — does the general sense of existential despair. It’s quite all right to acknowledge this. We all feel it. December, for all its glitter and glühwein, is a treacherous month for the solitary man. The shops overflow with couples in matching knitwear. Invitations abound, yet somehow all lead to events titled “Merry and Married.” Even the wine begins to taste smug — much like those Christmas cards, plastered with faux-happy family photos and a Labrador in antlers. And to compound the matter — as if the universe were actively conspiring — His Grace’s football (“soccer”) team has entered into what can only be described as a tactical winter hibernation, languishing at the wrong end of the Premier League, with a festive fixture list that promises further psychological ruin. It is, one might say, a perilous time for morale. So let it be known: Christmas is not, in fact, the most wonderful time of the year. For many of us, it is a brutal reminder that one is not in Saint‑Tropez, not in love, and not — despite heroic efforts — anywhere near the top four. So what is a gentleman to do? He is to rally. He is to send for cigars. He is to check on his comrades. He is to pour a generous port and raise it — not to sentiment, but to sovereignty. The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen should hold the line this season, and I encourage us all to connect more. I shall be available for chats, dispatches, and perhaps a festive conference call — accompanied by an iced bottle of Veuve Clicquot from my Spanish hacienda, where I shall be restoring myself, most likely by the pool. This is our Dunkirk. So if you see a fellow member adrift this December — do not let him drift. Send a message. Extend a hand. After all, a gentleman does not let another gentleman go mad alone in December. Rene
Quote of the Moment #8
"Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one." ~ Marcus Aurelius Caught this quote at the end of James Lawley's latest Gentleman's Gazette issue. Yes, I still check on his work. After all, while several of us might still hold a bitter taste after what happened with the GentZ Lobby/Lounge, it was what originally brought many of our OG members together. Because, even if it was brief in its then-incarnation, it stood for something we all wanted. A gentleman's renaissance. To come together and raise the bar again after seeing it fall so far in the last few decades. For men, by men. Not in exclusion of ladies, but as an understanding that, while true ladies have valuable input in our lives as mothers, sisters, wives, girlfriends, friends, and coworkers, advice on how to be a better man must come from men as living examples. Regardless the level of refinement, we all have flaws. Being a gentleman is about more than aspiring to be a good man. It's also about acknowledging and engaging about those flaws. To have the maturity to get raw and respectfully debate over controversy, rather than cover with decorum which too often ignores things. It's okay to have moments of weakness or questioning ourselves, and to confide in each other. It's how we grow. No one is perfect. On the flip-side, despite many messages in modern society, it's also okay to be masculine, in whatever form that takes, so long as it's used for good. Finally, if it's one solid truth about being a man, it's that we face those ugly truths and moments when no one else can, because it's what we do. It's what good men do.
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