Bike night is a time when different motorcycle clubs come together. We share a short message, then enjoy a braai. Building relationships, brotherhood, and unity. Last night, however, the message was a heavy one. A gentleman who was well-known, well-liked, always the center of attention. Has passed on after a personal struggle, taking his life. People that knew him never saw this coming. All who knew him is in shock. He never showed any sign of what he was going through. After the meeting, a few men came forward quietly, asking for help. Gentlemen, if you are struggling, please don’t stay silent. Don’t isolate yourself. Speak to someone. Seek professional help if you need it. If you call yourself a gentleman brother, then be a brother and reach out, check in, stand alongside one another. And seek a qualified, registered counselor. Every man faces a storm at some point in his life. There is no shame in that. You are valued and precious.