I am not looking for a job. In fact I plan for the one I am working at now to be my last. I wanted to share some techniques that I use(d) when interviewing that has some benefits, some draw backs, but makes the interview more of a two way conversation than a "they" question and "you" answer their interrogation. 1. I do my homework on the company or person offering the position. If it is a corporation I look at their profit and loss statements, annual corporate stockholder reports, and comments and statements made by the corporate leadership. I want to be able to speak to what their goals are and if those goals align with mine. 2. I ask questions. I want to know what their view and opinions are on telework, health care, work-life-balance. Have in mind what is important to you and if that company is once again, aligning with your values. 3. "Why?" should I come work for you. "What?" makes you better than the guy across the street. 4. Pay scales. You know what you are worth. They are always going to low ball an offer. It they advertise a position with an expected salary range, then I expect to be hired at the top of that range. The number one overhead expense for any employer is salaries. I value my expertise, work history and time. I have an expected price tag. 5. Check out the surroundings. If you are interviewing on site, be nosey. Look around and see what the conditions of their offices and work environment are. Look at he break room if any. Bathrooms. How much do they value their infrastructure that I may be putting 40 hours of my life in each week. 6. Dress for success. Dress for the position you want to have. Pay attention to the small details. Be articulate, enunciate your words. Avoid slang and maintain eye contact. If it is a board interview make eye contact with each person. Repeat their question in the form of your answer. In the end thank them for their time. You can even follow it up with an email if you are focused on obtaining that position.

Taking wife to get her new glasses that came in and taking her to dentist appt. So rocking my 3 piece suit with my really nice black and white tie and paisley vest Got my pocket watch and chain fixed so I could wear it hooked to my waist coat Also have my rose gold watch on my wrist Shades, cowboy hat and my r Watson boots

Good morning gentlemen, We have had discussions on reaching out to help and lead others to becoming gentlemen. I know many of us have that mindset that “how can I lead when I am not there yet?” But what better example than for others to see your growth first hand? Sure you’re going to make mistakes but for someone to not only see you make that mistake but to take ownership and correct it, is more of an example than anyone can imagine. Letting a person see you as human, foul able, and take ownership then see you correct it, is the mark a leader and a gentleman. Another aspect of leading by example that we all as men and humans fall short of is listening completely. We all think that we do; reality, when you look back at previous conversations that you had you will find that at some point during that person talking you stopped listing and started thinking, formulating your response or your story, or both. When take the time and fully engage in what the other person is saying, we need to give our full attention to them put away our phones, face them directly, make eye contact, and give undivided attention. Also be honest and share your experiences, your success and your failures, this lets them know that you are not perfect, you understand their plight, and you can relate to their struggles and challenges. Don’t be afraid to say you do not know, many of times people will ask me something and I am the first to say I do not know, but I will make every effort to get the answer to their questions. Here are some key points that might help you when giving pointers to someone starting out. 1. Learn to control your emotions 2. Stand your ground, even when you stand alone. 3. Build a mindset so strong, no insult can shake it. 4. Walk away from people who drain your energy. 5. Never beg for attention, you’re undeniable 6. Protect your peace like it’s your last asset. 7. Speak only when your words hold weight. 8. Work like you’re broke, even when you’re rich. Gentlemen, we can make a difference in the lives of people around us and encourage and inspire young men to become gentlemen.