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Boundaries

Being the person in the family that has broken the generational curse and pushed my self to succeed in life. I’ve had a lot of family ask me for “loans”. I have never given them any money. They know if they call me

For money I’m going to offer to open a business for them and once they pay me back the money the business is theirs. Only 1 person as taking me up on that offer. After 5 years He just handed me the last check for what he owed me. I gave it back to him told him merry Christmas.

We were sitting at dinner yesterday and he told That he now sees why I don’t give money but offer a business.

And that the family has started to call him for money.

But he’s been doing the Same thing I did with him. No takers yet.

Moral of the story is one word Mentorship

Just my thoughts🤷‍♂️

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