✨ You can’t do it for them… ✨
As much as we want our kids to be successful, we can’t do it for them. Perseverance has to come from within. 💪 If I had told my son to write a song every week for a year, do you think that would’ve happened? 😅 Nope. 🎵 But the idea came from him. And he did it. It was hard a lot of the time because his schedule is so hectic ⏰. And you know what that told me? It told me this is truly his passion. ❤️ When they lead and come up with their own goals, it goes so much better than us imposing what we think they should do on them. 📚 Last night we made his last high school schedule for next year (sniff, sniff 😭). There was only mild wailing and gnashing of teeth… on both our parts 😬😂. We finally came to a compromise about college classes. He agreed to take one class instead of another because of feedback he got from other students 🗣️. I had to let him lead on that one — because I didn’t have that information. Because he made the decision, he’ll fare better 🌱. He’s still doing the new program he loves next year, and while he hoped to go part-time, this program offers real work experience — almost like an internship 🏗️✨. 🔑 The theme through all of this? I’m letting him lead. As best I can. Am I perfect? Nope. 🙋♀️ But I do my best to have open conversations, listen, and help him make good decisions 🤝💬. 💬 What’s an example of letting your child lead — and it turning out well?