Still on page 1. Question number 2. And I've been sitting with it for 2 hours. 🤯

Habibatul Aulia

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Currently I am working on the Future Marriage PDF🤗 and honestly I did not expect it to hit this hard this early.

One of Question number 2 asks:

"Is my vision of marriage realistic?"

I already worked through the previous questions.. they were deep, but manageable.

Then I got to the last one.

Because here's what came up for me when I really sat with it...

I realized I had been carrying this image of marriage that was basically a highlight reel. The calm conversations. The partnership. The ease. The person who just gets you without you having to explain yourself every single time.

And then I thought about my aunt.

She's been married 20 years. From the outside.. perfect. Inside? She told me once, quietly over tea, "I spent the first five years waiting for it to feel like the movies. Then I spent the next five grieving that it didn't. Then I finally decided to actually build something real."

20 years. And the marriage she has now? Beautiful. But it didn't look anything like what she imagined walking in.

Download the Future Marriage PDF, open it to page 1, and answer question above honestly.

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Then come back here and tell me what came up for you. 👇

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Still on page 1. Question number 2. And I've been sitting with it for 2 hours. 🤯