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89 contributions to Muslim Marriage Accelerator
8d •
Grateful for Sisterhood in the Spouse Search 🫶
Assalamu alaikum, beautiful sisters 🌸 Today I want to pause and say something from the heart: I am so grateful for this community. We have never met face to face, yet somehow this space feels close, safe, and warm. 🌿 The spouse search can feel lonely, especially on the days when you're tired, anxious, or unsure. But here, someone always understands. Someone replies with kindness, shares a lesson she learned, or simply makes dua for you. The Prophet ﷺ said that the believers are like one body: when one part hurts, the whole body feels it. I see that here, and I feel truly blessed by it. 🤍 May Allah reward every sister who has shown up, shared, listened, and prayed for someone she has never met. May He ease your hearts, grant you peace in the waiting, and write for each of us what is best. Ameen. 🤲 💬 Your turn: Is there a sister or a moment in this community that has made you feel supported? Share it in the comments, and let's thank each other.
1 like • 10h
@Layan B Truly, I am really blessed to have this sisterhood, alhamdulillah. I remember when I first joined and how welcoming you and Sadia were to me. Those interactions really left an impression; it was the least I could do when I felt your absence here. Jazak Allah kahir for your kind words and duas.🤍🤍🤍
1 like • 5h
@Layan B Ameen ya rabb.💕
14h •
I have a secret to share...🙈
But super quick...before I do... Firstly, let me say that this , I am truly grateful for all of the sisters who have been SO active in this group. Ladies after my own 🩷...I love love doers. Action taking will get you super far in this space and many of you (I could name names all day lol) dove in and did that. Well done!👏 Secondly, I have a confession... I started this group with a simple idea. Bring sisters together who truly need support all over the world and do your best to serve them. ...but doing this for 25 years with thousands of women I know that just because I have seen what women need time and time again, each set of women are truly unique and I must allow them to first share and ask, so I can craft a personal path that fits many. So... that is what I have done and 🎉THIS WEEK, each one of you will 🙈see changes in the CLASSROOM. Please bear with us as we add the options for REPLAYS, PERSONALIZED RESOURCES that give you PRECISE STEPS STEP - BY-STEP to overcome the challenges that you have shared with me to move you forward quickly not only with real HOPE but CLEAR DIRECTION. There will be something for everyone... and you will see me DIVE in and ➡️NOT ONLY GIVE ADVICE IN LIVE EVENTS ANYMORE...I WILL GIVE SPECIFIC ADVICE ON YOUR POSTS and QUESTIONS to help you, inshallah. We will explain all soon, inshallah. This group is about to SUPER CHARGE and allow you to truly move forward in your own way and in your own time. So, get your notebook, and prepare your hearts and minds for a NEW SEASON 😊 that is about to open up, bithnillah. ⭐IN THE COMMENTS ⬇️: And even though I said I have been listening and know pretty well now...please feel free in the COMMENTS BELOW, to share something that is your idea of what would be truly helpful for you to overcome your INTERNAL WORRIES and FEARS, so I can make sure we have thought of everything, inshallah
4 likes • 10h
OOOh this is excitinggg! I think diving more into post marriage responsibilities would be amazing like raising children, family planning, financial literacy, education curriculums for children, nutrition, conflict management and using feminine energy I guess ? Work-life balance, alone time and hobbies, and our relationships with family members be it our own or our spouses, relationships with friends, neighbors, acquaintances and most importantly our relationship with Allah.
1 like • 6h
@Aamina M ameen ya rabb.
3d •
What's Your Why?
We took a poll on what sisters FEAR THE MOST and the top answer was: .... CHOOSING THE WRONG PERSON. I am really interested in....in what way? What is the worst thing that could be wrong about them? Can't wait to read the comments....😁
0 likes • 10h
Honestly, finding out that they do not know their role as a man and have a twisted understanding of qiwamah and the deen really sums it up. I think every weird heart disease lives under this and will expect anything and everything from such a person because there are traits and patterns that, when you see them, you'd better run😂. I would rather protect myself than entertain a possibility, but it could also bite me since it's a protection mechanism. I know that I can't be with a man I do not respect at all. Living in a delusion and then finding out he is nothing like what I thought or the image I built in my head is scary, especially if we are already married.
9d •
Free marriage apps
Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatu Allah, Please suggest some good free marriage apps, preferably based on your personal experience or other sisters experience.
3 likes • 8d
Hi Nahla, I do not use them either but I hope that Allah grants you what you want ya rabb with afiyah. I would advice to use MM's strategy and not talk on there but get them off the app and get to know them in person through your wali.🤍
1 like • 10h
@Layan B Mic drop. No strange man deserves access to you beyond what is necessary and halal until he is your husband🙂↕️.
26d •
The Quiet Shift When a Friend Gets Married
I've been thinking about something lately, and I wanted to share it honestly. One of my closest friends recently got married, and naturally, her priorities have shifted. That's completely understandable, and I'm genuinely happy for her. There's no sadness or resentment there at all. But there's this quiet feeling I can't quite name. Not sadness exactly, just something missing. Like a small gap where our friendship used to fill up more space in my life. I think it's just part of life shifting, seasons changing, people growing into new chapters at different times. It doesn't mean anything's wrong. It's just an adjustment I'm sitting with right now. Anyone else felt this before, when someone close to you moves into a new season and you're genuinely happy for them, but something still feels different for you?
3 likes • 25d
This one is so tough to deal with but it also depends on your relationships with other people and yourself and most importantly with Allah. Personally I think when you allow someone to encompass such a big part of your life especially if it is at the expense of other priorities, that is when it hits really badly. Remembering to give every relationship the correct priority is hard so it needs one to be very mindful of their heart and regularly check in with themselves otherwise you one day wake up wondering why this person that meant so much to you is suddenly taken away from you or acts differently.
0 likes • 23d
@Habibatul Aulia wa jazak ya rabb.🤍
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