Who’s in the Lead? @Aseel Himeidan Who’s the Runner Up? @Rayyah A Mabrook to you both! 🥳 Keep going.. I have free gift for the 1st position ⚠️ Important Note: If this month’s winner happens to be the same as last month’s winner, we do have a rule that a sister can only win once per quarter. In that case, we will lovingly move the prize to the 2nd place winner. We want to keep it fair and give more sisters a chance to shine 🤍 💛 How We Compete Who doesn’t love a little friendly competition? Think of it like how the Sahaba raced one another toward Jannah. Here, you’re racing toward ‘ilm (knowledge), growth, and becoming the best version of yourself for a healthy and happy marriage, bithnillah. Here’s how it works: ✨ Participate in the community section regularly ✨ Welcome new sisters ✨ Create your own thoughtful posts ✨ Engage in our weekly inspirational or Friday Focus posts ✨ Comment, reflect, and add value Then… watch your name rise on the leaderboard 👀 Stay consistent with good niyyah and aligned action and bam… You’ll be in the running to win some serious MERCH 🎁 Signature T-Shirts Mugs Journals Planners And more… May the sister with the strongest hustle and the softest heart win, bithnillah 🤍

I’m just here to learn from others’s experience bcuz I’ve got no clue about marriage; I’ve only ever lived with my mum (single) and never really seen what a marriage is like, let alone a healthy islamic marriage🥲 So plz guys guide towards the right direction, and I pray for everyone’s success in their journeys ❤️

Hi girlies how have you been. I was unable to attend the live today unfortunately and was wondering if one of you could tell me how it went. I had submitted a qn in the live and was looking forward to hearing the answer to it about apps and marriage cvs. Id appreciate if you could tell me the answer as well as anyother beneficial info you took note of. Jazakum Allah Khair.💞

Asslaam aleyikum, girls. How is everything going? Alhamdulillah, I have been alright, just stressed over how to go about looking for marriage through either those marriage CVs and apps. This is not something from my culture, so it is not acceptable or advisable, as it would be viewed as if you're displaying yourself as per mom's words before. I am still unsure how to bring this up to her, plus I find that these CVs probably do not give a better idea about me based on the details to be filled in. On the positive side, I found one that is completely halal guaranteed, and all communication is through the father, unlike the apps(muzz in particular). On the other hand, Muzz does allow photos, so it is more accurate? I don't know if this makes sense lol. But yeah, if you have any tips and advice, please drop them below. I still do not know how to bring this up to my dad, either, and I do need my dad's approval for the CV one. I think that it will be overwhelming too, but at the same time, I will be putting in effort and allow myself to access like-minded people who may be unreachable/ unavailable where I live.

I am faced with the dilemma of handshaking in my culture, and it goes against our Islamic beliefs. I know that Islam came to abolish cultures that do not please Allah. I had a lengthy conversation about it with my mother and arrived at an understanding that I cannot judge someone's religiousity based on this alone. I know that to be true because I only found out in 2019 and knew how difficult it was to stop it. I was able to resort to the niqab, and that made me safe in our cultural understanding. It does not excuse the behaviour, of course. My parents also shake hands, and my siblings avoid it, but not when cornerd sometimes. There is also this very disturbing pattern where guys who do not shake hands end up relapsing and shaking hands again later on down the line. May Allah keep us firm on his straight path. I know that with deen, no one can be certain about their own safety and the safety of their chosen partner. How can I consolidate this issue, knowing that handshaking is a very important thing in our culture, be it due to pressure or ignorance? If a guy's akhlaq are good, and this is the only thing making me not want to give him a chance, what should I do about it? I know that this is something between him and his lord, and at the same time know I can change it when I raise my own kids, and maybe he will too with time. I suggested to my mom asking any potential who does if he can stop it, and she advised me against it because that can allow him to use it against me. What should I do about it? I am starting to think that it should be a preference rather than a non-negotiable. I do not know if this is settling or not. At the same time, there is a disturbing majority trend that the same guys who do not shake hands end up being the most corrupt ones regarding lowering their gaze and their behaviour with women and it is only discovered after marriage because they're just strangely good at hiding it from the woman they're interested in. I do know that asking is also part of the vetting process, but I am really confused right now about whether or not I will end up sabotaging a good guy because of this.@Mindful Muslimah