Not every sister's journey looks the same. One sister shared, "I stopped comparing my chapter to everyone else's and finally found peace." The pressure around you does not define the plan Allah has for you. What is yours will arrive exactly when it's meant to. What helps you stay at peace with your own timeline? 🤍

As salaamualaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh dear sisters 💮 I am wondering... Is it enough of a reason... To stop talking to someone who may be great for you because you don't want to relocate to be very far away from your parents and family and visiting them may be very occasional. Do not get me wrong... the phrasing of this is not in any way to diminish the importance of parents and family... in fact its so important that it may just supersede everything else... Consider they don't want to relocate as well for other reasons. Alhamdullillah in any case I'm wondering what you think and I'm wondering what scholars advise about this as well I was thinking of sending this question also to dear MM through the form but it wants me to use a g account... so here it goes!

As salaamua'alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh respected sisters 🌻 Eid Mubarak; I hope your Eid and Dhul Hijjah so far have been full of appreciation and accepted good deeds inshaaAllah! There is something I'm unsure about... Someone who began communicating with my wali sent some information about himself and much was deen-focused basic initial information and some details about interests and what he is looking for (all communication we have had is through wali alhamdullilllah, mashaaAllah). They did not include anything about their professional/academic career/occupation and left that part blank of their messaged profile blank (stated "university" mashaaAllah). I assumed this was intentional and thought maybe they just don't want people to begin interacting with them based on that - I did not think I should disqualify him just from that. We thanked each other for the initial information and agreed to proceed with initial questions. One of the questions I asked was what his current and future career goals and occupation are. He gave a general answer of the field that he currently works in - which let me know that he is employed mashaaAllah (had no clue prior if he was working, planning to work, studying etc.). Didn't get anything related to future goals. After, that I asked what kind of work he does in that field and if it is related to his course of study. He replied saying that he kept his field general because he is (his words) "a pretty private person and it usually comes up later. I was expecting something more personal about myself and not my work in the first set of questions lol." Following that statement, he answered the question a bit more specific about his current line of work within that field politely but still vague saying its related to XYZ. Its not a line of work that is sketchy or give me any red flags in and of itself alhamdullillah (these interactions are all non-verbal written messages, I cannot know anything about the tone except what I interpret from the text - I understand this has limitations, but have not decided if will proceed to meet for verbal communication yet).

Mabrook to our shining sisters this week! 🥳 🥇 Leading the board: @Rayyah A 🥈 Hot on her heels: @Maaria A Keep going beauties.. the big prize drops on the last Wednesday of the month, inshaAllah. 👀 🤍 One gentle note: If this month's winner won last month.. no worries, we love you! But a sister can only win once per quarter so we can spread the barakah around. The prize will pass to our runner up. Fair, loving, and full of khair. 🌸 💛 So... how do you climb this leaderboard? Think of it the way the Sahaba raced toward Jannah.. with intention, consistency, and a heart full of purpose. Here that looks like: ✨ Showing up in the community regularly ✨ Welcoming new sisters with warmth ✨ Posting something thoughtful and real ✨ Engaging in our weekly Friday Focus ✨ Commenting with value.. not just emojis Do that consistently with good niyyah? Watch your name rise. 👀 The prizes are worth it, sis. 🎁 👕 Signature T-Shirts ☕ Mugs 📓 Journals & Planners ✨ And more surprises coming... May the sister with the strongest hustle and the softest heart win.. bithnillah. 🤍

As salaamuaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, When you guys are make a marriage profile to be sent via any matrimonial service/group, do you show it to your mother before sending it out? Do you (or does she) see it as a form of disrespect if you don't show her your marriage profile before sending it out. Please your answers, jazakAllahu Khairan