Potential's family · Muslim Marriage Accelerator

Potential's family

Alsalaam aleyikum girlies how have you been🫶. I have been well alhamdulillah.

I have a question regarding the family of someone interested. How do you know when some differences and issues ar eokay to overlook if you are compatible with the guy himeslef and when is it a red flag? Also, how do you handle some sort of previous conflicts and not amazing terms between the mothers if we are intrested in pursuing marriage? What would be signs of possible future disrespect and things snowballing further in such cases? With one guy they hand gotten gifts for the whole fam bcs we were the groom side in a recent wedding; however, the gift they got my mom was not good at all the incense is old while it should be new as is customs and the clothes they got her were not pretty. In reverse what they got my aunt was really pretty and my mom's cousin( who should not have been included in the gifts completely) got a really pretty gift. I do not know what to make of it. Another thing is my mom once caught the mother and daughter giving eachother winks and it really was not related to at all then it had to do with the groom in our family and the bride was her daughter. Yet that kind of behaviour seems disturbing to me. Am I giving those too much weight or are they weird truly and are they things to be ignored if the guy is okay or not?

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Potential's family