Feeling down · Muslim Marriage Accelerator

Feeling down

Assalamu’alaikum Sisters,

I am in need of an advice. I have been recently divorced about 2 months ago, and while I was initially doing well, lately I’ve found myself spiralling down- I kept hoping for his message, for a close and an apology, to the point where I kept dreaming of him.

I questioned if I made the right decision- but I know that my decision was made after so many considerations, and while I was willing to put aside my feelings to fix my marriage, I felt that he made it clear that his feelings was more important than being there for me.

He’s not entirely a bad person, I choose to tell myself that he is a good person, but maybe he’s not good as a husband for me.

How did you sisters learn to overcome this phase of waiting for something that will never happen?

Somehow deep down I always feel like we’re meant to find each other again, but I don’t know if I’m feeling this way because I’m trauma bonded, or because being with him was something I was familiar with.

I would truly appreciate all the advices 💗🫶🏻

Xoxo,

Jannah

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